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Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Typically, how often do you wear lingerie (meaning clothes you find sexy)? Before, after, during? Men and women can vote!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Before
62
During
44
Afterwards
11
Every time
2
Most of the time
19
Occasionally
30
Rarely
18
I don't wear lingerie
8
Total votes: 194 (96 voters)
Poll is closed
04/21/2011
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Contributor: starsNairguitars starsNairguitars
I'm a poor and busy college student.....so it might change in the future
04/21/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
I never have, never had the thought of, and never will. My wife does, from time to time. I think more time would be better!
04/21/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I don't wear lingerie too often unless it's a special occasion or I need a little more help getting him to bed.
04/22/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I try to be wearing something pretty/sexy whenever my guy's supposed to see it. But he only sees stuff on the occasional pic/cam show and very rare visit, so...
04/22/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Almost always before and sometimes during.
04/22/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Occasionally when we think about it. Usually its just us, but when I want it to be special or I want to surprise him, I dress up.
04/22/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
I personally love seeing my wife in beautiful and/or sexy lingerie all the time. I love seeing her look like the goddess that she is to me, and goddesses should look like goddesses.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
Before, and very rarely.

That takes planning and I'm more about spontaneity.
04/22/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Occasionally, when we plan ahead for it. Usually we're more spontaneous, but when we have a date night planned, or a sexy weekend planned, I always wear it. I even like to put it back on afterwards (if it came all the way off) so he can enjoy it a little while longer.
04/22/2011
Contributor: newlady newlady
I adore lingerie!
All different types & colours... a girl can never have too much!
04/22/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I would like to wear lingerie more often, but I'd get cold haha. What's the point of being so sexy when you're covered with a blanket?

Anyway, I suppose if I wore lingerie too often, it wouldn't be as exciting.
04/23/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
not as often as he would like
04/23/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
I few times as a surprise for my girlfriend.
04/23/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
my Goddess loves it!
04/23/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by froggiemoma
not as often as he would like
I wish my girl would more often as well.

The thing is you have to suggest it - it doesn't work. From the mental perspective the act of picking out something sexy and wearing it for your guy tells him not just that you want him - but that you've thought about it, and maybe have something special planned.

There's nothing wrong with showing up naked and going for the gusto - but mentally it's nice to know she thought about more than 5 minutes before the event.
04/23/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
occassionally i will
04/23/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Quote:
Originally posted by Lithaewyn
I would like to wear lingerie more often, but I'd get cold haha. What's the point of being so sexy when you're covered with a blanket?



Anyway, I suppose if I wore lingerie too often, it wouldn't be as exciting.
Wouldn't you get cold if you were naked anyway?
04/30/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
I rarely wear lingerie
04/30/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
I voted for "rarely" but actually I don't wear lingerie.
04/30/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I wear lingerie occasionally. My favourite piece is the cupless chemise - it's stunning!
04/30/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I only wore it on special occasions when we were living together. Now I try to wear something pretty whenever we skype - since we rarely see each other I don't want him to see me in something that isn't beautiful.
04/30/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
whenever possible
05/02/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
Typically, how often do you wear lingerie (meaning clothes you find sexy)? Before, after, during? Men and women can vote!
Usually wear it before and it doesn't stay on long.
05/06/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
before, during, after, most the time, to sleep in, to walk around the house in..... its just fun to feel pretty lol
05/15/2011
Contributor: Dizzykakes Dizzykakes
With my husband we can rarely wait for me to put it on.
05/16/2011
Contributor: irishlove irishlove
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
Typically, how often do you wear lingerie (meaning clothes you find sexy)? Before, after, during? Men and women can vote!
I love to wear something sexy while we're having sex but my boyfriend always take my outfits off completely I go out and get something new any chance I get if I have the money. I love wearing lingerie!! Just got something new today too
06/16/2011
Contributor: big b big b
just a teeshirt
06/16/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
My fiancee sometimes wears lingerie before and during.
06/18/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i love wearing it often and before sex. it doesn't really stay on during though lol
07/05/2011