Which lingerie piece do you think would work best for someone with a huge belly and butt?

Contributor: Rhazya Rhazya 05/04/2012

A lot of times I feel like any sort of lingerie either doesn't fit or emphasizes how fat I am, making me look pregnant. I like these, and would just like some thoughts as to which you'd like best based on the above?

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Contributor: Rhazya Rhazya
I have low self-esteem and don't feel sexy as it is. I feel like if someone sees me they'll want to run away. so would like to find some pieces (or at least some ideas as to what I should be looking at) to help me feel a little more comfortable.
05/04/2012
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Originally posted by Rhazya
I have low self-esteem and don't feel sexy as it is. I feel like if someone sees me they'll want to run away. so would like to find some pieces (or at least some ideas as to what I should be looking at) to help me feel a little more comfortable.
If you like them and they make you feel sexy, then that's what counts. I find a woman's confidence to be as sexy as any lingerie.
05/04/2012
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
It's all about proportions and things that accentuate the things you like (eg, your breasts) and detracts from other places. I don't know what your size or proportions are, so it's really hard to choose.

Something like this babydoll or a boned corset could either help accentuate the good or hide the bad (well, not bad, but the parts you don't like)
05/04/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
I agree with BBW..you need to find something that accentuates the parts you like about yourself. I am very selfconscious of my stomach as Ive had kids and well its still pretty flabby and my breasts are not as perky anymore.Igo with generally things with underwire,chemises preferrably with non mesh in the stomach area or a good corset that is kinda longer so my "pooch" doesnt stick out underneath. If I HAD to pick out of the ones you selected id go with the blue chemise and thong as it covers the stomach,material is solid in the front,underwire,and the black strip in the middle draws the eyes in so it makes you look thinner.Remember though I know you need to feel sexy to rock it but something that you hate on your body might be a part that your partner loves about you!like my ass is big(ghetto booty..lollll)but thats the part my man finds the sexiest!I think sometimes we pick stuff apart to much..If you put on a two piece and walked out of the room rocking it with confidence your partner wouldnt even see the belly sticking out(if it does) or cellulite(if you have it like me) they would think you were hot in it because you feel hot in it..get what im saying?...not everyone is perfect remember that..I dont like the things I said about me but im not gona let it seriously affect me!
05/04/2012
Contributor: Teacookie Teacookie
I love the royal blue one
05/04/2012
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I would pick the blue one out of those four. I am also plus size, but I have found that my boyfriend doesn't look at me and see me as fat. He says he loves my curves and tells me I'm very sexy all the time. As long you you feel confident in it that is what matters. And for some reason the guy that loves you doesn't see you as you see yourself.
05/04/2012
Contributor: StarFire StarFire
totally agree with BBW corsets and baby dolls do the trick
05/04/2012
Contributor: Sci Sci
As a guy who really likes curvy girls, i have to agree with many of the posts so far. accent the parts of you that you like, or that you know he finds sexy (breasts should work )and if he loves you, he probably doesnt see you as you see yourself, and is probably less critical. sometimes simple things like just a button up shirt are sexy as hell.

p.s. i like the blue one
05/04/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Try blue
05/04/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
Joan
10/18/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Long waisted corsets are the best corset style for women with larger stomachs. I've worked fitting corsets on people and it's amazing how the right style can make someone fell so much better about their problem areas. For more generalized lingerie, I would look for a loose fitting babydoll that accentuates your breasts and sort of floats down around your torso. I would look for one that is slightly longer if you are also looking to downplay your butt. In general, go for looser fitting flowy stuff instead of anything form fitting, unless it is a good (not lingerie or costume quality) corset that will hold up and allow you to cinch in your stomach and waist.
10/18/2012