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So me and my boyfriend have always had this issue that we're both fairly submissive in bed, so we both tend to 'take turns' being the dominant one. I recently was planning on buying myself a slightly submissive piece of lingerie (it comes
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So me and my boyfriend have always had this issue that we're both fairly submissive in bed, so we both tend to 'take turns' being the dominant one. I recently was planning on buying myself a slightly submissive piece of lingerie (it comes with a collar and is very soft and feminine) and thought that it would only be even to get myself a slightly dominant piece of lingerie to thrill him, too.
My problem? I don't want anything that's like leather and spikes and vinyl, but I also don't want anything that's not going to get the 'dominant' point across. I also am not a huge fan of hosiery in the bedroom, so the chemises that have to be clipped to thigh highs probably wouldn't be good.
So guys! I'd love any suggestions you have! Thank you so so much!
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You sounds just like me and my Lovie! We're both pretty submissive in bed too. Outside of bed though, I'm a tiger. Totally the opposite of submissive.
Anyways, I've been trying to sexy my look up as well. I always go for the beautiful, soft and feminine lingerie. Seriously. I don't think I own a single piece of lingerie that doesn't have ruffles or bows. For a while I have been trying to get the guts up to buy something more sex-kitten. Ok, more badass I guess. I just don't think my personality fits it, but I would love to be able to put on something sexy that gives me this attitude that says 'you better do what I say without question or this could be very bad for you.' LOL.
The one Alice posted is something I've had wishlisted for a while, but have been scared it won't flatter my body. I think it'd look fabulous on you though.
Also, after seeing the new Coquette pieces today, I've decided I'm SO going to end up buying them. Here, let me see if I can post them...
- This one is sexy and beautiful, but I think I'll be getting the others first:
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-THIS is a definite sexy, badass, MUST HAVE:
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-And this is the one I want the most. Also the one I think would really give you the look/attitude you are going for:
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-My second favorite. I think this will also be something that would fit what you're goin' for. Looks super flattering to :
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-This one, I'm not sure it would flatter my body, but I think it is super sexy, bad ass and it kinda says "I might F you, but then again, I might just kick your ass," which I like.
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-MAYBE this. If it's something your into, the whole costumey thing. However, it looks like the corset alone would do if you do not want to dress up as a cop. I like it, but it kind of gives me the impression that it could look cheap in person and may not flatter well. That's just the skeptic in me though. Lol
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-And these could be paired with any of the above to enhance your PVC look. LOL:
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Like Alice said, the Mistress line does look sexy! From what I have heard, it's pretty decent quality too.
Here's another one that I wishlisted and think is sexy, but still don't have the guts to put my body in it
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-Maybe this?
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-Also, this is a dress, but I think it's really sexy, and if you guys were going out somewhere on a date and you wanted to turn him on throughout the date and then break bad on him, this would so do it!
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-And then we're back to my love of ruffles. Not sure if this would fit what you're lookin' for, but it has the nice mix between sweet, feminine ruffle and sexy bad ass:
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-These pants, I don't think I'd really buy, but maybe?
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-Then there's the similar shorts, which are extremely sexy:
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-This one also looks fabulous!
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- This I adore, but it looks like the shorts would do awful things to my tiny hiney. It is sexy though!
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Those are all nice ones to choose from! I believe almost every one of those I listed are on my wishlist too!
Sorry if I gave you fetish wear overload.
Yikes. Sorry for not postin' them as pics! I totally forgot how!
