Would you let a new boyfriend/girlfriend wash your worn underwear?

Contributor: northstar northstar
It's all sexy when those juices are flowing in bed, but are you comfortable with your other half handling your used personal effects?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Absolutely not!
22  (28%)
Sure, why not?
57  (72%)
Definitely - in fact it turns him/her on!
Total votes: 79
Poll is closed
01/22/2011
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Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
we did our laundry together -i put the lace panties in he got to fold them we dated a while before letting him do my regular cotton underwear ( i had done much more of his laundry before he did mine)
01/22/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I would and I'd thank him for it.
01/23/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Not a new one. It takes a while to accept each other's unmentionable functions and articles.
01/23/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Wouldn't be a problem, we're pretty laid back
01/23/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I think this is a funny thing to ask. Everyone owns underwear and everyone who wears it knows that it gets dirty. If you are already having sex with this person, I would assume that your functions are already well known by the other party. I would certainly expect the person I chose to be with, mature enough to handle the idea of doing some laundry.

I am probably not a good one to answer this. My husband and I were living together after only knowing each other 3 months (we lived 1.5 hrs away from each other and saw each other most weekends - like 10 times) and we married shortly there after. If he would have been weird about underwear and laundry I think I would have thought twice.
01/23/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
I like to do my own laundry, only because I do the cold water, low spin, hang to dry thing and I would fear that he would ruin some of my more delicate things if he didn't know how to handle them.
01/23/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
If you're mature enough to be having sex with me, you're mature enough to know that I wear underwear and it's not always completely spotless. And if you're doing laundry anyway, is it really that much trouble to toss my underwear in too/
01/24/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Absolutely. But, he would never do laundry. That's kind of my area of expertise.
01/24/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
I said no because I like to keep the mystery alive for a little while. After a few months, ok, but until then, I keep that to myself. After a few months there is more intimacy and you have gotten past the best behavior stage, all bets are off (except going to the bathroom in front of him and a few other mystery maintaining personal rules.)
01/24/2011
Contributor: Free Free
It's laundry - I don't really care at that point.
01/24/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
I would if he offered to do laundry!
01/24/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
if you can share the act of sex with them, why would laundry be any harder?
01/24/2011
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't think I'd have my new boyfriend do my laundry. Maybe after a few months, I'd ask him if he could throw a load in the washer or something.
01/25/2011
Contributor: mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by Modern^Spank^Anthem
we did our laundry together -i put the lace panties in he got to fold them we dated a while before letting him do my regular cotton underwear ( i had done much more of his laundry before he did mine)
yeah hes done my laundry alot before, we're married so its not big deal
01/25/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
He'd wash my panties if he needed to. I mean, I *do* have a drawer over at his place and some of my clothes stay there. He doesn't want me to have dirty clothes when I come to visit.

I reciprocate and do his too. Then again, that's part of our dynamic
01/27/2011
Contributor: Shumway Shumway
I don't see a problem with it.. especially if we were already sleeping together.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
When I first met my husband he cleared a drawer out for me at his apartment, and let me keep some clothes there. He would wash the few pieces I left while I was away for the week. It's funny, he said he had never done that for anyone before (outside of his ex wife) maybe he just knew he'd marry me. Lol.
01/27/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
Meh no biggie...
01/27/2011
Contributor: ~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Absolutely! It's not like they have spots or anything. I'm super hygienic about that kind of stuff. My partner is too.

I change so many times during the day that it's not really fair for us to do laundry together all the time, but when we do, underwear is included. No problem.

A NEW boyfriend...again, sure. I have nothing to be embarrassed about.
01/27/2011
Contributor: sbon sbon
Sure, why not?
01/28/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm a bit traditional in that department, so I don't feel comfortable letting someone touch my worn underpants. Besides, I'm the one who does the laundry.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
No probably not. I'll do my own housework until the relationship is a little bit further along.
08/12/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Yeah, I'd have no problem with that.
08/12/2011
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by northstar
It's all sexy when those juices are flowing in bed, but are you comfortable with your other half handling your used personal effects?
id feel weird if it was my "granny panties" but my pretty panties id be fine with.
08/12/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I do his laundry often. I wouldn't care if he washed mine too.
08/24/2011
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
My man cleans the clothes that I leave at his house. It's not weird at all. I actually kinda like seeing him handle my panties.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
if he wants to clean my laundry, I'm not going to be stopping him. I hate housework and I love all the help I can get
09/25/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
My man does do the laundry. Of course I only own maybe three pairs of underwear so he does not have to wash them. However I let him put them on his face, so I do not see a big deal.
09/25/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
I usually do my own laundry....but if he wants to wash my underwear he can thats if there not my delicate or lace ones because I like to wash them and hang them to dry...or my ummm underwear i wear during my cycle they are ugly granny pannys I would be embarrassed..
09/27/2011