Hello, I am a newbie and this is my first post!I bought some new lube called "Agape Warming Personal Lubricant for Women by Jo. It is Glycerine, silicone and oil free.

Now, we did like the slipperiness of this lube for clitoral stimulation on myself, and for him, hand job was slick. It didn't warm like we thought it should, maybe not enough Peppermint.

**The odd thing though that I noticed was that my hands became shriveled, wrinkled and prune like when I went to wash my hands! It was like I had been in the hot tub for many hours! Now at first I thought it was strange, however after my honey got out of the shower and I went to give him a post-shower BJ ... I said remember my hands after I washed them ... your love rod has it too! It wasn't as bad as my hands were ... but some of the skin was definitely strange, with a little pruning effect. It was enough of a texture change that I couldn't go on! First time for everything I guess!

Now ... has anyone else had this happen to them with lube? Is this normal? Are parts going to start falling off?

Here are the ingredients from the bottle:
Methyl Paraben
Propylene glycol
Propyl paraben
Water
Sodium carboxy
Methyl cellulose
Acacia honey type A
Peppermint

I have noticed after a little light reading that many people do not like paraben, could you elaborate why?

If anyone has any suggestions for trying a new lube, we do not want it to be sticky or tacky. It would be primarily for hand job, or clitoral stimulation ... possibly me giving him oral, but most lubes taste awful, or are sticky & tacky.

Any response to the above would be appreciated! less