We have Boy Butter and like it - but our favorite is the YES oil-based formula made from Cocoa & Shea butters.

I used Yes oil-based when I take my silicone vibrators into the shower. So far no problems using it vaginally, although to be safe it's not an everyday thing for me.

Honestly though that's the only time I use it. It makes things go smoothly, but I always feel a bit too dry with it if I use it with my thrusting toys. I prefer the wetter feeling I get from water-based, though that's obviously a personal preference deal.

My SO swears by using Coco butter for healthy skin. I can only imagine your private parts would benefit

I tried the Yes oil based lube vaginally with no adverse effects but I only used it a couple of times because I decided pretty quickly that I prefer the water based and I don't need a lube in the shower or any other environment where water based would be problematic. But according to the Yes website it's safe for vaginal use. Can't speak for other brands though.

I will have to look up the YES lube, and a combination of cocobutter and coconut oil is fabulous on any skin, in my experience
thanks for your thoughts