does anyone else have trouble staying "wet" during sex or foreplay?

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Contributor: slunaprincess slunaprincess
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it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

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08/07/2010
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Contributor: Timaree Timaree
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Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
that's not an uncommon occurrence. lots of things can cause lubrication difficulties: hormones, dehydration, what undergarments you've been wearing (or not wearing any), age, even antihistamine use. check out this column for more info: link and never be ashamed to use lube!!!
08/16/2010
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
That's a very common problem that I think most women have come upon at one point or another, and some have to deal with constantly. The simplest answer is lube, lube, lube!
08/16/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Tori's right - my wife prides herself on being able to self-lubricate - but when we're doing toys we use lube 98% of the time. One of the few exceptions is the FunFactory Alumina Flow - it's so smooth that her natural lubrication is satisfactory.
08/16/2010
Contributor: TheCleansing TheCleansing
Yeah my girlfriend's never really had this problem before... I have heard of it occuring before. Good luck.
08/26/2010
Contributor: Hannah Savage Hannah Savage
I have had this problem even when I'm really into it and very turned on, but it comes and goes. I would think that it has something to do with hormones?
09/14/2010
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
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Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
Lube is definitely the answer. You should be happy and comfortable during sex and have nothing to worry about!
12/09/2010
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
Birth control was the culprit in my case. Now that i'm off it, the difference is amazing. (plus it was worsening my depression in general) I have very sensitive skin and don't particularly like lube. So i am very happy to have my river flowing again!
12/09/2010
Contributor: Review It Review It
Quote:
Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
LUBRICATION!
10/09/2011
Contributor: Review It Review It
Quote:
Originally posted by Timaree
that's not an uncommon occurrence. lots of things can cause lubrication difficulties: hormones, dehydration, what undergarments you've been wearing (or not wearing any), age, even antihistamine use. check out this column for more info: link ... more
I agree! You should try to figure out the reason and maybe you can resolve it.
10/09/2011
Contributor: Review It Review It
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
That's a very common problem that I think most women have come upon at one point or another, and some have to deal with constantly. The simplest answer is lube, lube, lube!
And more lube,lol!
10/09/2011
Contributor: bbgirl130 bbgirl130
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Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
Get hormone replacements! Makes an amazing difference!!
07/21/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
We ALWAYS use lube.
08/11/2012
Contributor: Undecided Undecided
I don't really ever have this problem luckily but I always have lube handy just in case
08/11/2012
Contributor: Gone. Gone.
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Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
I don't, unless I start talking. When that happens, horniness stops, e.a. stop being wet. The only thing I can provide for your case is lube... Or lots of stimulation.
01/18/2013
Contributor: Pandora'sBox Pandora'sBox
I have had this problem on occasion. Usually when there hasn't been enough foreplay. But when there has, I still sometimes can't get wet enough. But the issue is usually solved with lube, even when I am wet enough. We just like the extra juiciness. Plus, it's just fun to try different kinds.
01/23/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
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Originally posted by BadassFatass
Lube is definitely the answer. You should be happy and comfortable during sex and have nothing to worry about!
I agree...I always have this problem as well
01/24/2013
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by slunaprincess
it is sort of disappointing for me because i never seem to be able to " keep the juices " flowing, per SE? does anyone have any advice?

( just leave a message for me, okies, and thanks)
I think that it has something to do with the hormones, because a female can be turned on and the juices may still not flow, its best to use just a bit of lube, not too much but the little lube that you use will definetely help
01/31/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I drink tons of water throughout the day and take vitamins and I've never have any problems.
01/31/2013
Contributor: cbmb716 cbmb716
I sometimes experience dryness depending on what position we are attempting, how much salt I have eaten that day, etc. If we begin to experience dryness during intercourse, we just grab some water-based lubricant and keep going. Typically we use the KY water based lubricants you can find at any drugstore, but I have also seen a few worth trying on here too.
03/06/2013
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I've only had trouble with this a few times, and I think they have more to do with hormone cycle/birth control than any issues with arousal. Lube works great for situations like that, just makes sure that you're using the right kind for the right situation.
ie. oil-lubes and condoms don't mix, same goes for silicone lubes and silicone toys.
03/06/2013