What's a good warming/cooling lube that's safe for "down there?"

What's a good warming/cooling lube that's safe for "down there?"

VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
I'd really love to try some warming lube on myself but I'm not sure what to get... I don't want a warming massage lotion or anything like that, I want something that I can use on my clit. I've never tried any before. Does the cooling lube have a similar feeling? Which do you like better? Suggestions please! =] Thanks.
06/08/2011
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Darling Jen Darling Jen
Warming and cooling sensation lubricants definitely feel very different. Here's what they feel like for me. But keep in mind that it does vary from person to person.

Warming:

When it's weak, it's like being unusually warm in that area. If you hate being cold because you're cold-natured, this could be awesome. For me, I can't comfortably orgasm (or sometimes at all) if I'm too warm. Maybe it's like your skin got a nice blush from the spring/summer sun.

When it's strong, it's really strong! It can almost feel like just that part of your body is stuck inside a car on a sweltering summer day... with the windows rolled up... and no windshield protection. I haven't found many this powerful but, like I said earlier, I'm over-sensitive to heat. And the more air flows onto that body part, the more it gets your juices flowing (or should I say 'sweating'?) which further "activates" the heat.

Cooling/Tingly:

When it's weak, it reminds me of how your mouth feels after you've brushed your teeth. It's just slightly below body temperature, well lubricated, and a gentle, clean tingle. And then it's over fairly quickly. The slight tingle can help awaken nerve endings if you find yourself being rather "steel-clitted&qu ot; during stimulation.

I absolutely love this sensation and I will tell you now that I like it strong! When it's powerful, it's like swishing with original, minty Listerine. It's an intense tingly, usually menthol-laced cooling sensation that I have termed "cold fire". If you're sensitive already, this could be very unpleasant. But if you're not, it could be heavenly.


So I can't make very many suggestions for the warming sensations based on ones I like (because I'm just not a "warming" woman). But I can say that I really like certain brands so those would be what I would try first: Sliquid Organics Warming, Sliquid Sizzle, System JO Premium Warming Lube for Women

But when it comes to tingling/cooling, I can make more informed recommendations. For weaker lubes: KY Tingling (found in grocery stores), System JO Clitoral Gel, System JO H2O Cool, Cleopatra's Secret (I have the Strawberry flavor which is mild in my opinion and I figure the other fruit flavors will be too)

For more powerful tingling (and my personal favorite that I own two of): Cleopatra's Secret (in the Menthol flavor for added tingle and that minty fresh taste!)

I have reviews written for two of the lubes listed up there and I think two more should be written sometime in the undetermined future. I hope I helped a little. And I say try more than one! I just couldn't help but posting on this thread (especially as how no one else has yet)!
06/08/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by VioletMoonstone
I'd really love to try some warming lube on myself but I'm not sure what to get... I don't want a warming massage lotion or anything like that, I want something that I can use on my clit. I've never tried any before. Does the ...
Please let me know what works out for you. I wanted to purchase some myself, but I never have luck with these types of things.
06/08/2011
VioletMoonstone VioletMoonstone
Thanks for all the info! I'll try one the next time I order.
06/11/2011
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