Is it normal or weird to use masturbators?

Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
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Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
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Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
i don't think it's weird at all. i think that the belief that women use toys and men don't is kind of strange and silly. Why shouldn't guys use toys if they want to?
11/12/2012
Contributor: minstrel69 minstrel69
I think it is very normal masturbators and other sex toys. I disagree that the sex toy world believes that only women use sex toys. I think that sex toys have become largely marketed to women because of the ease of designing toys that women like. Recently, I think designers have gotten smarter about what men want in sex toys, but they could do a lot better.
11/12/2012
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
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Originally posted by minstrel69
I think it is very normal masturbators and other sex toys. I disagree that the sex toy world believes that only women use sex toys. I think that sex toys have become largely marketed to women because of the ease of designing toys that women like. ...
you're right. women were first to have "personal massagers" on the market. but the pocket pussy, hasn't been around very long...in comparison. I believe in time, there will be a much wider selection of toys marketed for men.
11/12/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
As an owner of a fleshlight I think masturbators are normal. I agree society in general has a certain view and most believe only women should have sex toys but I would say this is due to the fact women's toys came out first. I don't think men will ever have as many toys as women but one day society should see that it's acceptable for males to have toys too. We all like to play
11/12/2012
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
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Originally posted by CollegeFun2014
As an owner of a fleshlight I think masturbators are normal. I agree society in general has a certain view and most believe only women should have sex toys but I would say this is due to the fact women's toys came out first. I don't think men ...
I agree. A friend of mine asked me why i was encouraging my fiancé to try toys because if it was her she would be jealous.? He likes the idea of me having toys and more so, enjoys using them on me. The male sex toy market is constantly growing so im sure something amazing will surface soon.
11/12/2012
Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I don't think it's weird.
11/12/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I don't think that it is weird. I think that it is kinda cool!
11/12/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
I am not sure why there has been a stigma around male masturbators, they're bringing pleasure and not causing any harm.
11/12/2012
Contributor: lovesexandmarriage lovesexandmarriage
I love sex toys and so does my hubby. We use them together and apart. Nothing weird in my opinion.
11/12/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Whatever floats his boat!
11/12/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
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Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
I dont think its weird at all express your self how ever you want
11/12/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
toys for everyone, why not?
11/12/2012
Contributor: Fluke Fluke
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Originally posted by Ciao.
I am not sure why there has been a stigma around male masturbators, they're bringing pleasure and not causing any harm.
My theory is that the stigma from male masturbators comes from the blowup sex doll that is used in lots of movies as 'look at this nerd who can't get laid and has to use this ridiculous device'

With the popularity of the fleshlight and such I think some of the stigma is gone. I do still lie to my friends that I don't even know what a fleshlight is so that's something. But I have seen some tv shows such as blue mountain state in which guys use pocket pussies and aren't ashamed of it at all.

Ofc everyone here loves sex toys
11/13/2012
Contributor: UsArmyGuy UsArmyGuy
nothing weird about it at all. I think its great that men now have high quality toys to play with that women have enjoyed for YEARS. I love my Tenga flip, its permanently retired "right hand Sally".
11/17/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
My girlfriend, for some reason, is really interested in saving up to get a tenga flip hole. I would love to have a better masturbator and she really wants me to have one to. I'm happy she's interested in my play as much as hers (:
11/17/2012
Contributor: B/C I CAN B/C I CAN
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Originally posted by UsArmyGuy
nothing weird about it at all. I think its great that men now have high quality toys to play with that women have enjoyed for YEARS. I love my Tenga flip, its permanently retired "right hand Sally".
If you don't mind me asking, which color do you have? My roomate has the black one and he loves it, and I'm thinking of trying the white.
11/17/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I think it's normal. Maybe not common, but normal.
11/17/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
Why would it be weird? Toys are great, so everyone should have them.
11/17/2012
Contributor: tami tami
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Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
not weird, just something different
11/17/2012
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
not weird, just something different
11/17/2012
Contributor: Supervixen Supervixen
Totally normal, totally healthy.
11/17/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I don't think it's weird.
11/17/2012
Contributor: CloudySunday CloudySunday
I don't think it is weird, but then again, how many guys tell other friends that they have toys of their own?

Maybe men just don't seem to be willing to try them or just think that toys are just for girls.

Personally I was just too shy to even try one out, but I gave them a chance and now I have 3. I must say that it really changes the way one can play!
11/27/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
It's perfectly normal.
11/27/2012
Contributor: victorsummers victorsummers
I don't think it's weird,It's perfectly normal, it's just you feeling pleasure.
12/11/2012
Contributor: Badonk Badonk
I don't think it's weird. Girls use toys, it's only fair that guys do too.
12/28/2012
Contributor: Major Panda Major Panda
Safe and clean is all I can say. Dont want to have little ones running around at my age.
01/06/2013
Contributor: Robert Paulson Robert Paulson
I've never bought one but I would love one. I would prefer one that is discreet and can be hidden easily however.
01/11/2013
Contributor: Scythe Scythe
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Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
Do you think its normal for guys to use masturbators like tenga cups or fleshlights? The sex toy world has been dominated to believe that women are the only ones that use toys. And men are to use their hands religiously. What do you think?
I don't think there is anything strange about it.
04/18/2013
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