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Contributor: SiNn SiNn 03/12/2011

I'm just curious which cuffs you prefer

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Which do you prefer? if not these then what do you recomend (99 posts)
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
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Contributor: Destri Destri
Metal handcuffs can be really painful.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Metal handcuffs can be really painful.
Agreed. I like the silky handcuffs.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Lucidity Lucidity
Agreed. Metal handcuffs can be really painful and the silky ones aren't strong enough. Leather cuffs all the way.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I love the double locking metal ones!
03/13/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
Love the double locking!
03/13/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
It just depends how hard we want to play. Today I'd say the double locking cuffs...tomorrow it might be the silk.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Double locking? Yes please;-)
03/13/2011
Contributor: potstickers potstickers
Anything but metal. They can pinch nerves and cause permanent damage.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Silk all the way!!
03/13/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
Agreed, silk is nicer on the wrists.
03/13/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
HATE cuffs. Silk is so much nicer.
03/14/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
Not into the metal handcuffs, sorry. I would go with silk
03/14/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Metal handcuffs can be really painful.
Agreed! We really like the under the bed restraints.
03/14/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by potstickers
Anything but metal. They can pinch nerves and cause permanent damage.
I'm with potstickers, silk or leather or rope are the things I look to
03/14/2011
Contributor: PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
I love the way silk feels when restraining. It's not as strong, but feels so much nicer.
03/14/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I like the Silky sash.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I literally use my black satin sash I bought for a USMC Ball I went to for bondage.
03/14/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Silk all the way!
03/14/2011
Contributor: Skitlz Skitlz
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
Silky cuffs.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
silk and the double locking
04/13/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
silky restraints
04/16/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I prefer either leather or the velcro closure kind that Sports Sheets makes.

Although metal cuffs are "traditional" ; you have to be careful with them. Not only can they hurt you (in a way you don't want to be hurt) and leave tell tale marks, but they can cause nerve damage if used incorrectly or if you struggle too much. I'd leave metal cuffs for well seasoned bondage players. I really don't think they are for those just starting out.

Although silk is pretty, it causes terrible "rug burns" if it slides across your skin improperly. I'm really not a fan. Pretty and sexy looking, but not practical for many things, aside from a photo shoot, or non moving subjects.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Double locking cuffs for rougher play, silk sash restarints for more sensual.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Possibly Normal Possibly Normal
We are more vanilla so deff going with the silky sash ones.
06/26/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
We tend to like softer stuff rather than metal.
07/25/2011
Contributor: ladyred ladyred
Silky sash restraints (Black
08/09/2011
Contributor: fleshlightluvr1 fleshlightluvr1
gotta have some padding on it, or i'm not interested
08/14/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
The silk ones look wonderful.
08/26/2011
Contributor: 7Miles 7Miles
I like being restrained but still comfortable so the silk. Fur lined cuffs are also nice too
09/10/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
Not much into that, but do have a set of these "SILKY SASH" I got as gift. They feel very smooth and sexy.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by 7Miles
I like being restrained but still comfortable so the silk. Fur lined cuffs are also nice too
Neither one of us likes being "restrained", but silk can be used to "wrap" but not tie. Kind of the ultra light version of restraint?
09/23/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by ladyred
Silky sash restraints (Black
Seems to be the most popular, no question.
09/23/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Enchantedkitty
silk and the double locking
Double locking silk? ...that would be SILK VELCRO. Super idea!!! Someone should make that. Would be GREAT for sale here too.
09/23/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Police handcuffs are really risky cuffs. It's pretty easy to cut of circulation. And silky sashes can be awesome if you know basic rope technique. But if you just tie a double knot and let someone wiggle around in them for a bit, you are never going to get that thing untied. Trust me, I did that once! Oh, it was embarrassing. *blush*
09/23/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Double locking nickle cuffs!
09/23/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Metal handcuffs can be really painful.
I agree. We recently got a pair of leather wrist cuffs which are a lot more comfortable and nice.
09/23/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
I love my vegan jaguar cuffs
09/23/2011
Contributor: bdvnt bdvnt
I prefer leather cuffs for both looks and comfort. Handcuffs can be accidentally overtightened and they can leave embarassing bruises if you get a little too "into the moment." Silk is nice sometimes too. Silk is always sexy and feels great against the skin. I just like the leather cuffs more. I think there is a fetish element to leather restraints that attracts me.
10/16/2011
Contributor: oldman oldman
What is the difference between cuffs and restraints?
10/16/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I like the silky sash ones.
10/25/2011
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
the silk ones (:
10/29/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
the handcuffs look really uncomfortable. If I wanted to get rough I know the most comfortable bonds would last the longest. I like how the silky sash restraints are not just long but also wide, so they wouldn't dig into the skin. The "silky sensual handcuffs" are not really silk, the description says they are made of polyester
10/29/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
The double locking cuffs sound alright.
11/04/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
Silky sash restraints. Metal is painful.
11/21/2011
Contributor: Rhinobaby Rhinobaby
Yeah, no metal for me.
11/25/2011
Contributor: Maxx Maxx
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I find a woman in uniform very sexy so the best that would go with the are police handcuffs. My favorite uniform too.
11/28/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
No metal cuffs for us.
12/05/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
LEATHER CUFFS! Or vegan/faux leather
12/06/2011
Contributor: Lizzy Lizzy
Silky sometimes. Other times steel handcuffs
01/17/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
Double locking
02/03/2012
Contributor: Kabachu Kabachu
silky sash restraints
02/14/2012
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
Of these choices, silky sash. My personal favs are a Japanese rope pair with a slip-knot style design. I bought mine at a shop in Hartford. They are super soft and incredibly difficult to get out of
02/14/2012
Contributor: thebest thebest
Bimini ocean
02/14/2012
Contributor: thebest thebest
Quote:
Originally posted by thebest
Bimini ocean
damn lol wrong thread
meant to say Silky sash restraints for this one
02/14/2012
Contributor: Rawhide Rawhide
None of the above! Leather cuffs all the way, esp the Jaguar cuffs by Aslan leather.
02/14/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
I love silk.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
either of the non metal ones
02/15/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Leather Leather Leather!
02/15/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
Not metal!
02/15/2012
Contributor: Kate Kate
i like all of them but i also like bondage tape and japanese rope!
02/17/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I like the silky sash!
02/17/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I would get the silky handcuffs
02/17/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I think we would like the softer ones
02/17/2012
Contributor: Fun with Dick & Jane Fun with Dick & Jane
I prefer leather actually.
02/17/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
I'm not big on the metal ones.
02/20/2012
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
Silk is more sensual.
02/20/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
I like leather
02/20/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Silky Sash and Double Locking, for the two different purposes... ^^
03/29/2012
Contributor: CindyH CindyH
silky handcuffs
03/29/2012
Contributor: Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Double locking handcuffs.
03/30/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I like the silky sash restraints. They are probably way more comfortable than the police handcuffs. And I think the smooth silky material would be really sexy.
03/31/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
I like the look of Double locking nickel handcuffs. The police handcuff looks sturdier but also a lot more expensive.
04/04/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Sometimes it depends on the mood: silky/romantic vs metal/cop scene.
04/04/2012
Contributor: lisasharrer lisasharrer
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
i like to have my man in them not me
04/08/2012
Contributor: Inappropriate Inappropriate
the silky ones are pretty
04/09/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
I haven't used any of these myself, but there's no way that tradition handcuffs could be comfortable! Of the two fabric choices, I'd probably go with the polyester. I'd want something I know would keep a good hold, and silk tends to be too "slippery" for me.
04/09/2012
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
do not get the sash, they are just a pair of silk scarfs. much better off going with a set of comfortable cuffs
04/09/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
Silky sensual handcuffs
is what I would prefer....
I already have a regular pair
04/09/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
The Silky sash restraints look hawt!
05/04/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Silky or the velcro restraints, they're much more comfortable.
05/05/2012
Contributor: beccawalton beccawalton
i want some pink fur cuffs
05/05/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
Silk restraints or the cuffs.
05/21/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
i prefer anything that provides the restraint that i enjoy but doesn't cut into my skin- too reminiscent of getting arrested, but i love that i can throw as much force forward as i want when i'm being held back so cuffs stay metal goes.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Sam I Am Sam I Am
Double locking cuffs all the way. Silk doesn't hold me, I fight too hard lol
05/27/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
sash restraints
05/28/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Restraints
01/06/2013
Contributor: Creepellah Creepellah
Double locking nickel handcuffs
01/06/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
Silky sash, although I prefer leather ones (like the aslan ones) over all of your choices.
01/06/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Either silk ones work, but I like leather more. Its durable!
01/09/2013
Contributor: jaynimal jaynimal
Restraints...make you cum harder
01/09/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
I don't wanna be uncomfortable, so no metal for me
01/09/2013
Contributor: Tibby Tibby
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
I'm just curious on what you all prefer restraint wise
zip ties
01/26/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Metal is usually iffy. I would go with silk.
01/26/2013
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
The double locking nickel cuffs look cool.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
Silky!
02/04/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
Metal handcuffs. Not into the light silky stuff, my cuffs need to be durable. I prefer leather cuffs to metal, but metal definitely is better for me than silk.
02/04/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
I have metal cuffs and they are uncomfortable and not useful for rough sex. Ties are better.
02/09/2013
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
Out of these I like the Double locking nickel handcuffs but I prefer leather cuffs in general
06/10/2013