a toy i seen on tv

Contributor: Jen. Jen.
i was watching katie morgen where she was asking sex ?ens on hbo i seen a toy that was to tighten up down there i been to 5 different porn sites i dont have the name or no idea what it would be under i am wanting to know if any one knows of somehtign that will work in its place or knows the name of the toy she was talking about. it was kinda like tong shape and u just flex on it it was pink all i remember about it.
12/26/2008
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Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Jen.
i was watching katie morgen where she was asking sex ?ens on hbo i seen a toy that was to tighten up down there i been to 5 different porn sites i dont have the name or no idea what it would be under i am wanting to know if any one knows of somehtign ... more
Well, I assume it's some sort of vaginal exerciser (link). I don't see anything that really fits your description but I'm certain other shops with some other products. Unfortunately, your description gives me little to go on and I haven't seen the show. Can't find a copy or transcription online either. Best of luck
12/26/2008
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
Maybe you saw the kegelmaster. link It works well. I don't know why sex sites don't sell it.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Spiking Glue Spiking Glue
Just a gentle warning --

I've owned a toy similar what you're describing. It works to a degree, but it *can* pinch like a mofo. That was a great detractor for use, right there.

You can kegel around anything, to be frank. Various dildos and fingers work rather well. I found my personal best results around weight -- anything metal worked very well, for me, and there were a couple metal kegel-cisors that I felt worked really well, that are sold here on Eden. Another 'tool' I have used, was a simple string of pony beads on a string, with a knot every 10 beads, to make a rep of 30. I'd clench every 10 beads, whenever I felt like it. I made it from a baggie of $1 pony beads and a bit of string. If you have it, rosary beads work too. I just happen to not be catholic.

The spring-loaded Kegel exercisers seem quite limited by comparison, when I compared them to my other options available. I won't poopoo them, though, because frankly, anything that makes you kegel, is a good thing. I'm just saying, please don't feel that the spring loaded devices are the only exercisers that work. They're just one of many, and they are an exerciser of preference.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I have a kegelmaster. I haven't been pinched. It does work. Using my ability to tighten around my fingers as a gauge, I can tell you that my PC muscles are noticeably stronger now.

I haven't tried metal kegel exercisers but it makes sense to me that a tool that offers resistance will be more effective than a tool that requires only your own muscles. I lift weights, and I know that clenching your muscles won't give you as much muscle development as using exercise equipment that adds resistance. Probably that's why the kegelmaster appealed to me.

Spiking Glue, I'm curious to know why you see the kegelmaster as limited. I'm not saying it isn't. I just don't know. Are there a variety of ways to exercise with a metal kegel-ciser? Did you find your PC muscles strengthening faster/better with a metal kegel-ciser?

It looks like I may have to add a metal kegel-ciser to my wish list.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Spiking Glue Spiking Glue
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Originally posted by Tuesday
I have a kegelmaster. I haven't been pinched. It does work. Using my ability to tighten around my fingers as a gauge, I can tell you that my PC muscles are noticeably stronger now.

I haven't tried metal kegel exercisers but it ... more
I'll preface by saying I'm terribly impressed at how well I wrote last night, considering how drunk I was. *cough*

I didn't say spring loaded Kegel machines didn't work, in fact I said it worked to a degree in my first sentance. There are at least 3 spring loaded kegel excercisers out there, and mine pinched on occasion. It was startling. It did not pinch all the time (which is why I said it *can* pinch, not that it does). Hate to sound like a bitch, I just really want to stress that I'm not against spring loaded Kegel excercisors, I just don't think they're the most effective thing out there.

Yeah, there are a variety of ways to exercise with a metal kegelcisor -- the specific one I'm mentioning is actually called a Kegelcisor. I can only think of 3 ways off the top of my head, but all three ways exercised different muscle sets, in different ways. The spring loaded device arguably works out two as well.

A bonus with the metal kegel excercisors would be that, they can dually act as sex objects when they're not acting as health enhancers. And personally, I tended to lose the damnable springs in the spring loaded ones almost instantly (gnomes! I swear!), so that was also a bonus for me.

It's funny that you find greater improvement with resistance training, I have always been told that weight training is best when executed properly, with slowness and control, and not herky-jerky movements. Because of that, maybe I've paid more attention to weight training and its effectiveness, over resistance training. Or maybe my body just responds better to weight training, who knows? Either way, when I switched from my pinchy pink spring loaded excercisor, to a metal one, I started to actually see improvement, instead of hoping to see it.

Anyways, enough of stealing the company's dime, I better get my ass back to work.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Spiking Glue
I'll preface by saying I'm terribly impressed at how well I wrote last night, considering how drunk I was. *cough*

I didn't say spring loaded Kegel machines didn't work, in fact I said it worked to a degree in my first ... more
I hope I don't sound like I'm arguing with you. I think we're in agreement about free weights being better than resistance exercises in general. The former raise your testosterone levels (at least in men) more than resistance exercises and that helps build muscle. But you can't exactly do curls or pushups with your PC muscles. All you can do is squeeze. I had assumed that squeezing against something that would press back would be more effective than squeezing against a fixed object, but you're comparison is quite convincing! I bow to your greater experience with these products.

Can you do the same exercises with the Pure Wand that you do with the kegelcisor? How do you think that would work?
12/27/2008
Contributor: Jen. Jen.
see im asking for theses causes i just had my frist kid and i had her c section but to me i fell losses when my husband is in and all so i am wanting to keep it tight so he wont leave me for some one elses are sex already is starting to suck im just hiting 21 and we have sex no more then 1 time a month. he just cannt look at me the same sences the baby.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Jen.
see im asking for theses causes i just had my frist kid and i had her c section but to me i fell losses when my husband is in and all so i am wanting to keep it tight so he wont leave me for some one elses are sex already is starting to suck im just ... more
There could be other reasons why your sex life isn't as good now. Like exhaustion. And financial stress. And the weight of responsibility for a new being. Some men see their wives more as mothers after they have a baby. I've heard of several men who were less interested just because in their warped minds you don't sleep with mothers.

Its so very hard having a new baby. But things will get better.

Why don't you have a contributor profile? I would have PMed you.
12/27/2008
Contributor: Wordplay123 Wordplay123
Think that in this case a conversation between you and your mate might be more beneficial than purchasing a product in hopes that the effect it renders will make you more desirable.

Once you're both on the same page, there's a LONG LIST of sexual aids that will totally re-ignite the fire in your marriage that I, and any one else here, could recommend.
12/30/2008
Contributor: Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady Not Here Anymore f/k/a Happy Lady
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Originally posted by Jen.
see im asking for theses causes i just had my frist kid and i had her c section but to me i fell losses when my husband is in and all so i am wanting to keep it tight so he wont leave me for some one elses are sex already is starting to suck im just ... more
As Tuesday mentioned, there are probably many reasons you aren't having sex with your husband as much as you think you should. One baby = 100's of changes in your life: schedule changes, food changes, money changes, clothing changes - the list lasts forever. Also, if you are breastfeeding that could be dampening your own sex drive.

It's great that you want to strengthen your Kegel muscles to help things out; however, I seriously doubt your husband is going to leave you because you feel "loose". (If he does, well, then.... *explicative deleted*)

I know it's hard because you are young and you want to feel sexy and sexually desired. It's only normal that a woman's body should change with childbirth; however, we see the models and actresses with their "perfect" bodies only "--- WEEKS AFTER CHILDBIRTH!!!!" Those people have nannies, cooks, maids, personal trainers and lots of other reasons they don't have to do much but concentrate on getting their "perfect" bodies.

It was very hard for me too. I was always "that hot chick" in the group. Then I had 2 babies in just under 2 years. But guess what: I am sexier now than I was before! I feel so much more alive and having children has been great motivation to keep my body healthy.

My point is: This is a hard time in your life with lots of changes. If you can, talk to your husband about your insecurities. I know that's not always possible - it wasn't really even an option for me. If you can't talk to your husband, talk to another mother or even a counselor if you want. Giving birth is really the most amazing thing you can ever do. Please don't let this amazing time in your life turn into a time of insecurity and depression.

Feel free to shoot me a private message through this site and we can talk about it.
12/30/2008