Female ejaculation

Female ejaculation

Dex-tri Dex-tri
Hi there, I would like to make my gf ejaculate (squirt as it may be) ... i was able to somewhat make her ejaculate about 2 times ... but i want more(she does also). Is there a toy or a how to book that will give some hints and tips?!
05/15/2008
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BiancaBi BiancaBi
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Originally posted by Dex-tri
Hi there, I would like to make my gf ejaculate (squirt as it may be) ... i was able to somewhat make her ejaculate about 2 times ... but i want more(she does also). Is there a toy or a how to book that will give some hints and tips?!
You betcha! That's an excellent guide: link And that's a really good toy for it : link Enjoy yourself!
05/15/2008
Chato Chato
The Gigi vibrator (tho more expensive) would be better than the smooth groves one!
05/15/2008
Essin' Em Essin' Em
Dex-tri-
What an admirable goal, but keep in mind that you can't even "make" anyone do anything..even if her mind wants to, her body might not, and sometimes the pressure can make it even more impossible.

However, I worship the Pure Wand by Njoy, and both me and a former partner had our first ejaculation experiences with it. Just remember, relax, have fun, and it's more likely to happen when you're not stressed about it.
05/15/2008
Tragemony Tragemony
I've found that using the technique of a forced orgasm makes me squirt. I've only done it once, but it was extremely effective. Squirting in this instance aims mainly on sensitivity and could possibly "hurt so good" that it's unpleasant. I guess it all depends on the person though.
03/08/2009
Mae Baby Mae Baby
hmmm I wish I could learn how to do that...my bf also wants to make me do that, but the only time he has was when we were having sex and I was on top. I might get that book tho. Thanks for the suggestion!
04/05/2009
Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Tragemony
I've found that using the technique of a forced orgasm makes me squirt. I've only done it once, but it was extremely effective. Squirting in this instance aims mainly on sensitivity and could possibly "hurt so good" that it's ...
What do you mean by "technique of a forced orgasm"?
04/05/2009
Rockin' Rockin'
I'd like to know what technique Tragemony means, too. The only type of "forced" orgasm I've had is the kind where I hold my breath (or exhale and don't inhale). I don't actually choke myself by force, but I think I get a similar, milder result.
04/10/2009
Sammi Sammi
I always thought that meant where a clitoral vibe was held against your clit and wasn't removed until you came. You yourself have no control over the vibe so have to have (forced) an orgasm.
04/10/2009
Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
Try the HItachi Magic Wand. I have seen it work wonders
05/28/2009
Raven Raven
The very best book, IMO, would be "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl. Seriously. Until I read it, I did not know that women were ejaculating thousands of years ago and it was extremely common. I also didn't know that a woman could ejaculate without an orgasm, or that the g-spot has ridges, a body and a tail. She gives techniques and sexual positions and talks about doing it solo or with partners. She also describes a typical workshop where she teaches women to find the g-spot. The book was a big help for me.
06/17/2009
Passionate Pastor Passionate Pastor
You can also try the Bent Graduate. It is great!
03/01/2010
Gardenvy Gardenvy
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Originally posted by Raven
The very best book, IMO, would be "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl. Seriously. Until I read it, I did not know that women were ejaculating thousands of years ago and it was extremely common. I also didn't know ...
Thanks for the info... I'll be getting that book to use with my guy!
03/10/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I haven't tried it personally but I've heard more than once that using a small liberator pillow can help in situations like this...if her hips are elevated, you'll be hitting some new spots that might be more effective.
04/08/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I haven't tried it personally but I've heard more than once that using a small liberator pillow can help in situations like this...if her hips are elevated, you'll be hitting some new spots that might be more effective.
Tori - you are right. The Liberator Wedge does angle the pelvis in a way that enhances g-spot access/stimulation.
04/08/2010
irrlvntwshs irrlvntwshs
The best thing i have found is to let yourself go for women it is a mental block, if you do not think about wanting to do or try it comes easier.
05/04/2010
Beloved Beloved
Interesting...I have a question. Is "squirting" or "female ejaculation" like peeing? When I have used my rabbit, sometimes I get intense orgasims and I feel like I'm peeing. I've had to put towels down on the floor in the bathroom (No, not the most comfortable place, but the easiest to clean and have some privacy). Is there a difference? I'll have to check into that book as well!!
05/09/2010
kck kck
Quote:
Originally posted by Dex-tri
Hi there, I would like to make my gf ejaculate (squirt as it may be) ... i was able to somewhat make her ejaculate about 2 times ... but i want more(she does also). Is there a toy or a how to book that will give some hints and tips?!
Hi, Dex-tri!

Like those before me, I'd caution you that squirting can't be forced. In fact, if your girlfriend feels pressured into squirting, she probably will be too self-conscious to actually have it happen.

I know because I am a squirter (I'm pretty pro at it, lol). The position that *always* works for me is the "Deep Stick" (go here for more info: link). Make sure she is comfortable and that you do not take it too rough. Like I said, this position is absolutely incredible for squirting.

Hope this helps
05/09/2010
kck kck
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Originally posted by Beloved
Interesting...I have a question. Is "squirting" or "female ejaculation" like peeing? When I have used my rabbit, sometimes I get intense orgasims and I feel like I'm peeing. I've had to put towels down on the floor in the ...
Hey Beloved,

Yes, squirting is kinda like peeing. At least, the sensation is very similar. However, the ejaculate is not purely urine (although it does contain some elements found in urine).

I used to be very self-conscious about my squirting... My boyfriend had never been with a girl who was capable of female ejaculation before, so he thought I was peeing on him Luckily, I did some research and found that I'm not a bed-wetter, just very lucky!

Here's a link to some great information on the topic: link

Let me know if you have any questions. Like I said, I can speak from personal experience and don't mind sharing!
05/09/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Any g-spot toy would be a great place to start!
05/09/2010
YoungCouple YoungCouple
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Originally posted by Passionate Pastor
Try the HItachi Magic Wand. I have seen it work wonders
I'll second this. And for me, it's the SOUND of squirting that does it, the squirt itself is a take or leave.
05/10/2010
Just Jen Just Jen
Try a juicer.
09/07/2010
thatonegirl thatonegirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Dex-tri
Hi there, I would like to make my gf ejaculate (squirt as it may be) ... i was able to somewhat make her ejaculate about 2 times ... but i want more(she does also). Is there a toy or a how to book that will give some hints and tips?!
Your best best is to play around and find out what makes her ejaculate.
10/07/2010
MissTay MissTay
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Originally posted by Tragemony
I've found that using the technique of a forced orgasm makes me squirt. I've only done it once, but it was extremely effective. Squirting in this instance aims mainly on sensitivity and could possibly "hurt so good" that it's ...
I agree, I have only squirted once and it was from having an orgasm to the point that I just let everything go. Even though I have g-spot toys, they don't really do much for me, although I wish they did.
11/13/2010
Brand Brand
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Originally posted by BiancaBi
You betcha! That's an excellent guide: link And that's a really good toy for it : link Enjoy yourself! ...
I was actually looking for something like that. Thank you BiancaBi.
11/17/2010
Vally Vally
For me position is everything. A few pillows under the shoulders helps me get the right angle on things when masturbating. I have not had the opprotunity yet with a man though, so can not advise there.

Also of note, at first it was easier for me to ejaculate with toys that were larger around and it took a lot of fast, hard thrusting. Now I can do it with smaller G spot toys but it still takes a lot of thrusting and of course the pillows under my shoulders.
11/18/2010
LittleMissBliss LittleMissBliss
Here's another tip. It isn't about getting the orgasm, it's the building up of extreme pleasure. More or less the journey is what counts. Relax, don't think about the orgasm that you will have. Think about the "in the moment," or what your currently feeling.
11/21/2010
KnK KnK
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Originally posted by Raven
The very best book, IMO, would be "Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot" by Deborah Sundahl. Seriously. Until I read it, I did not know that women were ejaculating thousands of years ago and it was extremely common. I also didn't know ...
It has a tail?!? O_O Wow.

I know this might be a dumb question, but can any woman ejaculate? I'd definitely be interested in it if anyone can.
11/27/2010
DixieDoo DixieDoo
The Night Moves Embrace did it for me. It's only $25. It was just a matter of hitting my g-spot just right. Although, I just got a Hitachi Magic Wand and that thing is so freakin powerful that I squirted without any innner play needed.
12/07/2010
markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by Dex-tri
Hi there, I would like to make my gf ejaculate (squirt as it may be) ... i was able to somewhat make her ejaculate about 2 times ... but i want more(she does also). Is there a toy or a how to book that will give some hints and tips?!
what is a forced orgasm
01/19/2011
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