Question for the ladies regarding penis sleeves

Question for the ladies regarding penis sleeves

RyM08 RyM08
I’m on the smaller side of the penis size spectrum. So in order to give my wife a little extra pleasure during sex I purchased a penis sleeve (a sleeve that goes over the penis to make it bigger and thicker). The first time I used the sleeve it was evident that my wife enjoyed the new toy. During our seven years of marriage I had never seen her moan and cum the way she did that night. I’ve used the sleeve on two other occasions since that night, and again, it was evident she liked it. However, to my surprise, she has asked me to never use it again. She admitted she liked how it felt but she said she prefers to “feel me” and not plastic during sex. I get that she likes to feel me during sex, as its an intimate moment that we share, but I don’t see the problem of using the sleeve once in a while, especially if she liked it. So my question is, could it be that she liked the sleeve so much that she’s afraid she’ll eventually prefer the sleeve over me and have the temptation to cheat to have a real penis this size? Could it be that it reminds her of an ex boyfriend? I’m just confused...
Jul 22, 2:50 pm
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MeliPixie MeliPixie
Hi, I'm sorry you're feeling worried about this. So here are my humble thoughts. I doubt that your wife is necessarily worried about cheating. However it is possible that she doesn't want to begin to prefer the sleeve to your natural penis. My biggest suggestion would be to simply have an open and honest discussion about why she doesn't want you to use it anymore. And if you want to lay the cheating question on the table, make sure you are very delicate about it. The last thing you want to do is make her think that you believe she even might cheat on you, that could possibly hurt her feelings. But like I said, that is very unlikely to be her concern. She likes sex better with your penis because of the intimacy. For many women the orgasm isn't necessary 100% of the time, though the thought and effort are always appreciated. The closeness and intimacy are often enough for sex to be satisfying.

I hope my rambling helped. It has been a long time since I logged on here and I apparently have a lot to say. Good luck and if you decide to have a deeper conversation about it I hope you will let us know how it goes! ?
Jul 22, 6:30 pm
GingerAnn GingerAnn
Dear RyM08!
I completely agree with MeliPixie that you shouldn't be worried about your wife considering cheating. For me, on many occasions, sex toys, however wonderful they might feel, don't deliver the sensations I get from having with my boyfriend's naked self
Thus, I believe your wife did enjoy the sleeve you bought but simply prefers you over any gadgets - and that's wonderful.

And surely we will be waiting for an update on the talk if you decide to have it. But I expect it to be not a revealing and sad conversation, but the sweetest moment of your married life.
Jul 23, 4:53 am
Dominica Dominica
RyM08, chill, man. For women, it's not all about super ultra mega orgasms - it's about intimacy that can be way more fulfilling. I bet it was an interesting sensation for her, but nothing beyond that - she just wants to enjoy you. You're afraid she would think about cheating - I think it's the opposite. She did get a taste of, let's say, "another dick" and didn't want to stick to it. Best of luck in your most certainly loving marriage.
Jul 30, 4:37 am
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