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Contributor: minny minny 11/07/2010

Help me and my Man pick a new toy

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What would be best for first time users? (77 posts)
Contributor: minny minny
help us decide
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
RosesThorns , ToyTimeTim , Lummox , PuplePleasures , moonlitlilly , Shellz31 , Kimbertrees , Stujen , SparklingReviews , Lady Venus , dhig , Harlequin , just a sub , sweet seduction , DeliciousSurprise , kk232362 , Kindred , liilii080 , ellejay , Kaltir , SexyStuff , Anne Ardeur , Fuzzycow , Carrots , Miss T , Stagger13 , Solar Ray , REDRUM , Fuck it. , cobiffle , Ajax , Xiel , chidoll , CandyGirly , darthkitt3n , Rightya , Virgulino , It's a Hooker! , uu , k3 , CAKES , MaryExy , Jazz , ichwillwaffels , Endocott , JessCee , Miss Anonymous , dudemeister , The Mother of a SiNner , daveysgirl , Jon S , Badass , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , NarcissisticLust , jmex83 , Marcianpro , Sweet-n-Playful , Cat E. , Dr. Curious , PurplePainter23 , babymario , souviet , Tom Dogface
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XXXXXXXXXXXXX , dv8 , mrs.mckrakn , kinkygrl , Fuck it. , Ajax , Mason , JennyGbaby , ichigostrawberry , Badass , Tango8976
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meganthomas , bloomFish , Penguin , Trashley , TexasFire , fghjkl , mllebeauty , potstickers , C4ss , pfoof , PussyGalore , Envy , pinkcupcakes , Keegski , x cherri , kittychilla , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , EvaChangeN , Lio , Eorwyn , Lady Marmelade , swf , MissBre , Fuck it. , Rub My Ducky , CSEA , Ajax , DJBounder , Joie de Cherresse , bobowaxer , Adam02viper , Bunnycups , rings204 , Drifter86 , Purpleducklings , DCorrelle , The Curious Couple , wetone123 , zracer , chidoll , CandyGirly , callsignhusker , tkphoto6 , Ago , kmac , Rightya , Howells , starsNairguitars , Lily Night , mb , TheTwoRegularFolks , brian691986 , angel142stx , null , SiNn , CharlieBrown , sarki , MaryExy , Jazz , Ghost , Endocott , jay28 , js250 , kelaaa33wish , sexyintexas , phunkyphreak , dudemeister , Ryuson , thebest , The Mother of a SiNner , toysforall , Breas , ily , domsub1993 , Bignuf , Anjulie , Diabolical Kitty , -BillD , Cherrylane , Funtastic , Badass , Sohotdinosaur , Wildchild , ECU Pirate , Curiouscat , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Greenleaf , Missmarc , samanthalynn , Rawr4483 , Stinkytofu10 , ksparkles16 , jmex83 , calliope , BlooJay , GONE! , butts , petname , Djiffy , plaidvulva , roskat , Undead , SparklyGlitter , romstomp , A.Mari , Lucky21 , LavenderSkies , Apple3192 , LoooveMonkey , damnbul12 , Vaginas , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , Mikemanz , Lildrummrgurl7 , mdnght , Arlinnae , Shanedawson608 , 1001 Pleasures , nosrslylol , MilitaryLove , Anne , PropertyOfPotter , IvyFayette , karenm , Falsepast , tunacan75 , chicmichiw , Nacht Stern
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Mason , Beck , daveysgirl , Enchantedkitty , aliceinthehole , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Gunsmoke , OhMy! , PuplePleasures , Tart , PussyGalore , Xavier7 , sixfootsex , VenusianThunder , guy4guyz420 , DJBounder , eggiweg , Mason , Seth912 , LowFreqFreak , kawigrl , Curiouscat , MissCandyland , hhh , joiedejouets
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Jimbo Jones , RonLee , tim1724 , ily , garylangworthy420 , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Bethy Cassatt
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Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
I like the Dolphin cock rings, but the color is really just up to you!
11/07/2010
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I picked the purple one...cause I like purple...
11/08/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I like metal cock rings - but 1.5" would be too big to be effective for me. 1" to 1-1/8" works better for me.
11/09/2010
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I like the purple one. I have the elephant version and it works really good.

If you like the metal one be sure to measure carefully before buying. Use a piece of string and mark where it overlaps when tight (not to tight) and then measure from mark to mark. This will give you the circumference, divide by 3.14 and that will give you diameter. Measure three or four times over a couple of days to get a good average. For some good reasons why check out this thread on cock ring emergency's.

Also, no matter which you by limit use to 30 min or so with an hour in between to prevent injury. This is if you have it good and tight to provide girth and firmness to your cock.
11/09/2010
Contributor: Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I'm going to suggest the cock commander:
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This one costs more, but the vibrator is aligned better with her clit than the dolphin cock rings. The frosted ice rings are not available for purchase and for someone new to cock rings, I'm not sure that a rigid metal ring is going to be the best place to start.
11/14/2010
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
Of those, the dolphin cock ring is best for couple new to toys. The metal one is for the more advanced.
11/15/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I'm going to suggest the cock commander:
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This one costs more, but the vibrator is aligned better with her clit than the dolphin cock rings. The frosted ice rings are not available for purchase and for someone new to cock rings, I'm ... more
I suggested the blue dolphin, but this one looks ace too!
11/15/2010
Contributor: fghjkl fghjkl
Blue dolphin!
12/03/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
(EdenFantasys)
I would highly recommend against a metal cock ring until you two have actually used a cock ring first. Metal ones can be more "difficult" to wear and take off and are a lot harder to get off in case of a "this is uncomfortable" emergency. Go with one of the jelly/stretchy jelly ones. I normally like to recommend the Screaming O series, but that isn't one of your choices up there.
12/10/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
I'm actually considering getting one called "Boss Cock" for my boyfriend. Maybe you should check it out too.
12/13/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i like the pink dolphine
12/13/2010
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
the purple dolphine is great
01/20/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I'd recommend a Vibrating Cock Ring in silicone like this one, if you like vibrations on your clit when face to face. But given that few of us have unlimited budgets you might try a non-vibrating one such as, which I really like.
01/21/2011
Contributor: Miss T Miss T
Quote:
Originally posted by Jimbo Jones
I'm going to suggest the cock commander:
link
This one costs more, but the vibrator is aligned better with her clit than the dolphin cock rings. The frosted ice rings are not available for purchase and for someone new to cock rings, I'm ... more
I have to agree with Jimbo the commander seems like it'd be way better and wouldn't have to be adjusted during sex. As for the metal cock rings I would stay away from those until you are very skilled with rings.
01/27/2011
Contributor: sixfootsex sixfootsex
Metal cock rings are fantastic...
02/15/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
I picked the dolphins
02/15/2011
Contributor: whubwa whubwa
Metal is generally not the move for a beginner. Since the material does not give at all, you have to pick one that is just the RIGHT size. Other than that? have fun with them. You could even get a cock ring kit
02/17/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
I agree... skip a metal ring unless you are absolutely sure of the right size you need. Another good choice is the Beginner cock ring from Tantus which is silicone and slightly more flexible.
02/27/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Dolphins are so fun
02/27/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I hate things with animals on them, but given the choices I would choose one of the dolphins. They look like the have a lot of give and stimulate you as well.
03/01/2011
Contributor: Rub My Ducky Rub My Ducky
From your list, it looks like the dolphins are your best option! I've always found metal rings very attractive, but I don't wear them for, well, all the obvious reasons... That's something you definitely want to consult with your partner about before purchasing and leave the decision to him. As for my overall opinion on cock rings, I'd say the Lovering 8ight by Fun Factory is my favorite one!
03/01/2011
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
Metal (or anything else rigid) is a bad choice for a first ring. Go with something stretchy.

Another consideration is whether you want something to be worn on the cock only, or something which will go around cock and balls.

I've enjoyed cock rings similar to these to put around my cock only. I've used some rings similar to these, too. They're really stretchy, and work either around just the cock or on cock and balls.

If and when you do decide to go with a rigid ring (which will definitely go around both cock and balls), you'll want to be sure to figure out the exact size you need. A set of rings such as these can be helpful in determining the right size to go around your cock and balls. These aren't very stretchy, so they're pretty good for determining your size. (I use these occasionally, but only right after I've shaved. For some reason these tend to move around and tug on my pubic hair, which the stretchier ones don't seem to do.)

I only have one metal ring, and it's way too small. One of my testicles is bigger than the other, and it doesn't really fit through the metal ring. (Luckily the ring was free, so I didn't waste any money. But I'd certainly measure twice before buying one!)

As for vibrating rings, some people like them and others don't. My girlfriend and I used to use them quite a bit, back when we used to have one that she absolutely adored. But it eventually wore out and we've never been able to find a replacement that she likes. Many just don't manage to hit her clit, or they have vibrations which are too high pitched for her. So now we use a separate clitoral vibrator instead of having a vibrator attached to my cock ring.


edit: oh, and as a clarification, I haven't used either of the first two products I linked. They're similar to ones I've used, but not quite the same. The third one is a product I own, though.
03/03/2011
Contributor: guy4guyz420 guy4guyz420
go metal
03/15/2011
Contributor: Bunnycups Bunnycups
I like the blue dolphin.
03/22/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I say go with one of the dolphin rings.
04/14/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
help us decide
dolphin cock ring blue!
04/14/2011
Contributor: CSEA CSEA
Quote:
Originally posted by The Curious Couple
I say go with one of the dolphin rings.
They are very fun
04/14/2011
Contributor: callsignhusker callsignhusker
Interesting choices..
04/18/2011
Contributor: Rightya Rightya
Purple or blue dolphin.
04/29/2011
Contributor: AOutrajus AOutrajus
the dolphin one is probably better because it has the bullet but the bullet takes watch batteries but you can always switch out the bullet.
04/29/2011
Contributor: brian691986 brian691986
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
Dolphin cock ring (Blue)
05/01/2011
Contributor: pixieluv pixieluv
If new to the cock ring, stretchy ones first are always the best way to go to see if you like the sensation and if it works. If you are looking for his and her pleasure, the addition of vibrations is great too. I had Clit Brush Cockring as my first but there are many stretchy ones out there to try. There are even a few throw away ones that are cheap for the sake of experimentation.
06/04/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Any of the dolphins seem fine!
06/04/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
I like the dolphin cock rings, and I love purple.
06/05/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
The blue dolphin
06/17/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
Go with the Dolphin, purple
07/10/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Metal cock rings are really not for beginners. They have to be carefully measured for and one should really use a more flexible ring before investing in something so...permanent and expensive. Metal cock rings may last a lifetime, so careful sizing and knowing your way around how to use them is best before investing in one, or more than one.

There are a variety of silicone cock rings that work really well and sets of several different sizes that are best to start with. link
07/12/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Just ordered the Omega link to be my second metal ring - I'm really looking forward to it because of the round metal shape - as opposed to the flat metal one I have now.
07/12/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
The vibrating cock rings are a great first toy! I like the O Wow!!, but the dolphins are great as well.
07/12/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
I picked the blue dolphin because I still giggle at the thought of it surfing on my husbands dick...lmfao!
07/12/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
I pinked the dolphin cock ring in purple. I've never tried any of them, but they look like alot of fun.
07/25/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Out of those, I picked the Dolphin!
07/29/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
i would definitely say the dolphin. The color obviously up to you! Good luck!
08/13/2011
Contributor: Angewin Angewin
definitely the dolphin!
08/23/2011
Contributor: BellaDonna2884 BellaDonna2884
The dolphin purple or blue. Not sure what your man is like but some men might feel emasculated strapping on a pretty pink cock ring, unless of course that would be a good thing, then definitely go with the pink.
08/23/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
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Originally posted by Bunnycups
I like the blue dolphin.
Same here
10/17/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I'm not fond of any of them really but I did vote on what is the best.
10/17/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I asked my boo if he'd try a ring cause I thought he might like the Bo but he said I wasn't allowed to put one on him. "Ever."
10/18/2011
Contributor: Badass Badass
All the dolphins look nice.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
As far as color i like the green
02/18/2012
Contributor: Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
The dolphin cock rings
02/18/2012
Contributor: ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
Love that blue color on the dolphin.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
Dolphin cock ring (Blue)
03/06/2012
Contributor: samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
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Dolphin cock ring (Blue)
03/07/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
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Dolphin cock ring (Blue)
03/07/2012
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by minny
help us decide
link

This toy is a great beginner toy. I actually reviewed it if you want to check it out.
03/07/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I'd try the dolphin cock ring!
03/07/2012
Contributor: jmex83 jmex83
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
My wife would say the purple, I say the blue lol
03/10/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
I'd go with the dolphin in whatever color floats your boat.
03/14/2012
Contributor: plaidvulva plaidvulva
Dolphin looks the best. The blue is my favorite of the colors, but that's really your call.
03/14/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
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Originally posted by minny
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Blue dolphin
03/21/2012
Contributor: Marcianpro Marcianpro
I like purple!
03/26/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
Dolphin!
03/27/2012
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
I picked the blue dolphin cause dolphins are blue lol
12/07/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I would get the purple dolphin.
12/13/2012
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
the blue looks nice
12/14/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
I would suggest the Super soft c-ring, it's silicone, a little more expensive, but very reliable.
12/16/2012
Contributor: Shanedawson608 Shanedawson608
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Originally posted by minny
help us decide
Dolphin, its a good starter.
12/18/2012
Contributor: 1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I'd go with one of the Dolphins. It's a stretchy material, plus it vibrates. You don't want to try anything metal until you're sure what diameter ring to get, because those are difficult to get on and off, especially if they're too tight.
01/12/2013
Contributor: babymario babymario
Go with the dolphin
01/16/2013
Contributor: nickeyt nickeyt
we like the metal
01/16/2013
Contributor: jive.9 jive.9
It seems like you really want one of the dolphins..
02/18/2013
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
Dolphin cock ring in blue
02/18/2013
Contributor: Tom Dogface Tom Dogface
Dolphin cock ring (Purple)
02/20/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
The dolphin in blue
02/20/2013
Contributor: Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
any one of them except the metal one, got to know your size really well so it will fit and not be to tight.
02/20/2013