Around both the balls and penis? Or just the penis? Every try one those that also go in the anus? Check out the Lanco - linkOf course, there's plenty of these types on the market. Here is another - link I like this one more than the Lanco actually. However, both tend to slip out as I'm really getting into it. An nJoy plug combined with a C ring to me is the best. The wt and shape of the nJoys really add to the thrill and excitement. And the skinny neck keeps the plug inside. Actually, my sphincter seems to tighten around it. less