some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
do you prefer to use your vibrator with or without your partner?
09/08/2010
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SoSexi
Sometimes I really enjoy it by myself but 97% of the time I like to use it with my partner
09/10/2010
It depends on the vibe. Some are great for using with a partner, others aren't. I don't have the Venus Butterfly pictured above, but that looks like a great one to wear for some extended foreplay. Hand the remote over and let your partner tease you.
09/10/2010
It really depends, I like both situations though.
09/10/2010
My Fairy Wand Mini is for me only; it is very powerful and bulky. It can get me to orgasm straight away, so the amount of time is completely up to me. It would be awkward to use during sex, though, as it becomes hot quickly and can get in the way. It's also tethered to the wall, so you can't squirm too far away (limiting positions).
Other vibes, specifically my Jimmy Jane Form 6, is perfect for partner play (in that I don't even use while solo at all). The shape is perfect to 'reach' spots during coupling. It also doesn't have quite enough power to throw me over the edge accidentally, so it is perfect to use in addition to partner stimulation.
(...did I just say 'during coupling'? )
Other vibes, specifically my Jimmy Jane Form 6, is perfect for partner play (in that I don't even use while solo at all). The shape is perfect to 'reach' spots during coupling. It also doesn't have quite enough power to throw me over the edge accidentally, so it is perfect to use in addition to partner stimulation.
(...did I just say 'during coupling'? )
09/10/2010
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+1, I really like to use a clit vibe when we are having sex. But if it is just me then I use it for me
Originally posted by
SexyySarah
It really depends, I like both situations though.
09/10/2010
I don't own a Venus Butterfly or any "Panty Vibrator" but we have a lot of other types.
Of course, I use them by myself, but I really prefer when he "Mans" the vibrators. He does things I wouldn't think of, he can get into positions with them I simply wouldn't manage by myself, and some of the surprise of what he's going to do is most of the fun!
With the exception of the Wahl Massager, which we use during couple sex, but I always hold it, because he's doing other things to get me to Come, when we're together, he usually mans the Vibe. Even when I'm giving him head, he has inventive ways of using vibrators on me.
Of course, I use them by myself, but I really prefer when he "Mans" the vibrators. He does things I wouldn't think of, he can get into positions with them I simply wouldn't manage by myself, and some of the surprise of what he's going to do is most of the fun!
With the exception of the Wahl Massager, which we use during couple sex, but I always hold it, because he's doing other things to get me to Come, when we're together, he usually mans the Vibe. Even when I'm giving him head, he has inventive ways of using vibrators on me.
09/10/2010
with is way better
09/14/2010
without, unfortunately.
sometimes its more work figuring out which partners won't freak out about it than its worth. aye aye aye i cant wait to grow up!
sometimes its more work figuring out which partners won't freak out about it than its worth. aye aye aye i cant wait to grow up!
09/14/2010
I like to use mine without my partner. I just feel like toy time is solo time and I get to completely indulge and enjoy it without leaving him out. However, if he were to suggest using one on me, I wouldn't deny him that
09/14/2010
Never used one with since I only had sex once, so for now I have to say without.
09/14/2010
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i would say without. it gets in the way
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
09/14/2010
I am considering bringing the vibrator into partnered sex, and I think my main consideration is the size/shape of the vibrator and how easy it will be to use during intercourse...
So far, though, I've only used it solo.
So far, though, I've only used it solo.
09/15/2010
Great Job!!!
12/20/2010
Depends on my mood actually. For the most part alone but every now and then would love to use it with Him or Her.
12/20/2010
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We've never had any problems with toys "getting in the way." Sometimes you have to make allowances, and change the position etc to make the toy fit well. I'm sure My Man has perform cunnilingus a little differently when we use a penetrative vibe. (But, a penetrative vibe or dildo actually makes anal sex easier.) At least I assume he does. He's never really mentioned it, it makes him hot to play with toys with me. But, it's not different than him using his hand, really. He can go down and use a vibrator at the same time. If we are using a wand vibrator or a Wahl, we've worked out positions where it works best. Either him behind me, maybe penetrating, or using his hand or a dil, or I'm lying on my back and he he has his hand either in or holding the penetrative dil or vibe, while I hold the massager in place, with my arm around his neck and his head on my breast.
Originally posted by
bleedingthoughtsofyou
i would say without. it gets in the way
It's fun to think up ways to make these things work. We've had sex with as many as 6 or 7 toys at one time. He gets really horny and can't wait when an order comes from Edenfantasys, "Let's use them all." and it's a lot of fun.
Not only does it add to the pleasure at times, but it forces you to think of new ways to make love.
And sometimes, it's just plain "skin only" sex. It depends on what we're in the mood for.
12/20/2010
Depends on my mood. Normally I prefer to use it without my partner.
It can be very interesting and pleasurable to use it with him every now and then, though.
It can be very interesting and pleasurable to use it with him every now and then, though.
12/20/2010
It really depends on the situation but I usually like to use a vibrator solo. My partner does like to engage though and seems to get a little jealous when not included on my play time with my toys.
12/20/2010
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I'd like to use it with my partner but he isn't interested
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
01/30/2012
both ways..
05/01/2012
this is great for foreplay!
05/07/2012
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I have to have say that 90% of the time I like having my partner share the experience with me... Although I love exploring my body when he isn't around to enjoy the pleasure with me...
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
06/11/2012
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I have to have say that 90% of the time I like having my partner share the experience with me... Although I love exploring my body when he isn't around to enjoy the pleasure with me...
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
06/11/2012
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I definitely like it for solo play. He has too many good bits to play with for a toy to be fun.
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
07/09/2012
I prefer both. Well, I guess on second thought with partner.
07/09/2012
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It is best if used with your partner.. Both parties get to enjoy the pleasures this butterfly has to offer.
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
07/31/2012
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I'm in a long distance relationship, so unfortunatly I have to use mine alone. Even if i wasn't usually alone, I like to use my vibrator for special "me" time. I don't have to worry about anyone else but me and my batteries! However, I do like to use it with my partner too. He loves teasing me with the remote operated toys!
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
08/22/2012
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I am looking to use it with
Originally posted by
paralax
some like with and others without. you tell me which you like.
09/29/2012
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this toy looks like (the Venus Butterfly II) a fancy cock-ring is all. They give em away for free here on the site, they cant be worth 3$ definitely not the 20 something they are trying to charge for it. Not cool.
Originally posted by
SoSexi
Sometimes I really enjoy it by myself but 97% of the time I like to use it with my partner
10/04/2012
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