According to wikipedia, erotic massages are given before and after sex, something I didn't know. So when do you get/give erotic massages?
Do you use erotic massages as foreplay or the final act of sex?
09/02/2010
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In our relationship all massages are foreplay - if I want what most people refer to as a 'back massage' - I'd ask my wife for a 'back rub'. We freely talk about getting or giving a massage in public and people have no idea what we're talking about.
09/02/2010
I guess I have never even thought about a massage after sex. I know I am to tired to do any rubbing!
09/03/2010
I feel like it's foreplay but I don't think the person receiving will be complaining.
09/08/2010
Definitely foreplay for us. I REALLY enjoy massages as foreplay, either giving or receiving, because they're relaxing and definitely sexy.. they also seem to extend sexual play for us because after the massage comes the "actual" foreplay.. Or sometimes during the massage Plus I LOVE having my butt massaged.. MMM!
09/08/2010
I use my toys anytime, when the time feels natural and fun.
10/03/2010
foreplay
11/04/2010
Bost of the time (always) before, but sometimes, as I'm in my post-orgasmic bliss, I'll get them then, too.
11/04/2010
Definitely foreplay.
11/05/2010
We usually do it as foreplay
11/05/2010
A nice back massage is my favorite form of afterplay. It feels soooo good after a nice orgasm.
11/05/2010
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Interesting idea - we rarely have the luxury of that much time. My girl gets up pretty early and needs her beauty sleep!
Originally posted by
joja
A nice back massage is my favorite form of afterplay. It feels soooo good after a nice orgasm.
11/05/2010
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We do them before we go to bed or at a stressful moment. They aren't foreplay, though, so my answer really qualifies as other.
Originally posted by
Pandahb
According to wikipedia, erotic massages are given before and after sex, something I didn't know. So when do you get/give erotic massages?
11/05/2010
as foreplay
11/08/2010
Both. We have been totally getting into burning the Afterglow candles by JimmyJane while we make love in the morning, and then giving each other massages as the sun comes up. The light is so beautiful from the candles while you are making love and the massage is a nice way to come down from heavy sex.
Sometimes we have massages before, too. It depends. I often massage My Man to sleep. It shuts him up.
Sometimes we have massages before, too. It depends. I often massage My Man to sleep. It shuts him up.
11/08/2010
Neither.
11/09/2010
We don't really engage in erotic massage. We give each other massages when one or the other is experiencing pain. However, I would love giving erotic massages more often.
11/09/2010
My husband and I have not done erotic massages yet.
11/11/2010
I give it before....usually when I do this its "her" pleasure night. Oil her down then finish the massage off with my tongue and her favorite clit toy
This is the stuff I do for her that unlocks her kinky side so we both win in the end.
This is the stuff I do for her that unlocks her kinky side so we both win in the end.
11/13/2010
I never tried it before...perhaps I will have too.
11/13/2010
I prefer receiving massage as a precursor to sex...I've found that if I ask for one after we've done the deed, my lover is usually pretty tired out and his efforts are a bit...half-assed. He occasionally likes to have his back scratched when we're through tho. Or even during. Ahem.
Sometimes I'll even take a nice, long, erotic, therapeutic massage in place of the actual sex, depending on my mood.
Sometimes I'll even take a nice, long, erotic, therapeutic massage in place of the actual sex, depending on my mood.
11/13/2010
I like before to get me in the mood.
03/30/2011
We rarely do as foreplay, but never after sex.... We're both too tired to do that in the final moments.
03/30/2011
Sometimes it's fun to just do foreplay and not have it end in sex. Massages are also fun as hell and can get me off!
04/08/2011
If I remember correctly the massage was used as foreplay
05/15/2011
We only massage before sex, but we like to play it slow, for an hour or so! It really turns us on!
05/15/2011
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i usually give them before. i'm usually too tired to do anything afterwards
Originally posted by
Pandahb
According to wikipedia, erotic massages are given before and after sex, something I didn't know. So when do you get/give erotic massages?
05/15/2011
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Either and both. Depends on our mood. A good massage can always be foreplay, midplay or postplay.
Originally posted by
Pandahb
According to wikipedia, erotic massages are given before and after sex, something I didn't know. So when do you get/give erotic massages?
05/16/2011
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Varies depending on the moods we are in!
Originally posted by
Pandahb
According to wikipedia, erotic massages are given before and after sex, something I didn't know. So when do you get/give erotic massages?
05/17/2011
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