Do you use your vibrators more for masturbation or sex?

Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
It struck me the other day that most of my toys are used more often in sex and play then in masturbation. And while this holds true for most of my vibes, a couple of my clitoral vibes are almost exclusively for wanking. What about you?
09/28/2011
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Masturbation, mostly. Though, I don't actually have a working vibrator at the moment. I need to invest in another bullet, just haven't gotten around to it.
09/28/2011
Contributor: ToyGurl ToyGurl
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Originally posted by carenautilus
It struck me the other day that most of my toys are used more often in sex and play then in masturbation. And while this holds true for most of my vibes, a couple of my clitoral vibes are almost exclusively for wanking. What about you?
All of my toys are used mainly for masturbation purposes when it comes to me. My husband will use a few of them on me during sex, but I wouldn't say that they are mainly used during sex. I am on the prowl for more toys that are easier used during sex play at the moment.
09/28/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
All of my toys are used mainly for masturbation purposes when it comes to me. My husband will use a few of them on me during sex, but I wouldn't say that they are mainly used during sex. I am on the prowl for more toys that are easier used during ... more
It's definitely true that some toys don't lend themselves to some kinds of sex. Most of my toys come out in kinky-type play. So I've got a vibrator in me while gf takes out the cane. *yum*

I'd suggest a bullet for partnered sex. It's great for missionary, in particular. You can reach down and use it on your clit, and it feels delicious.
09/28/2011
Contributor: muffles muffles
don't use vibes much, if so mostly during sex
09/28/2011
Contributor: kellyg kellyg
I use vibes almost solely for masturbation. Really don't add it much to sex unless we are doing anal, good times
09/28/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by kellyg
I use vibes almost solely for masturbation. Really don't add it much to sex unless we are doing anal, good times
That's true! Anal + vibrator = *very* good times.
09/28/2011
Contributor: RuMaRo34 RuMaRo34
Masturbation, only.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Good question! I only have like 2 "traditional" vibes, and one wand-type vibe. The Fairy Wand gets used pretty often for massage-type "foreplay," the two insertable ones are pretty much mainly for solo use.

But dildos (which comprise the bulk of my collection) are used both solo and partnered. Wonderful as my fella is, he doesn't have two cocks so I'm very grateful to Tantus for stepping in!
09/28/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Usually masturbation.
09/28/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Mine are mostly used in masturbation only. I'm slowly introducing my lady to the world of toys. I've only used one on her so far, but she is interested in trying more some time.
09/28/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Usually solo
09/28/2011
Contributor: EJ EJ
We use them for both.
09/28/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
Almost always for masturbation.
09/28/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by Antipova
Good question! I only have like 2 "traditional" vibes, and one wand-type vibe. The Fairy Wand gets used pretty often for massage-type "foreplay," the two insertable ones are pretty much mainly for solo use.

But dildos ... more
A woman after my own heart!

Now I come to think of it, my dildos are used in partnered play pretty damn often. I would be very bored without my beloved strap-ons!
09/29/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
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Originally posted by wrecklesswords
Mine are mostly used in masturbation only. I'm slowly introducing my lady to the world of toys. I've only used one on her so far, but she is interested in trying more some time.
I remember involving toys in partnered sex was a bit nerve-wracking for the first several sessions. I was afraid I was telling my partner they weren't good enough. Once I realized he was just as turned-on as I was, it helped a lot. So you two have fun above all else! That's an order!
09/29/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Mostly for solo use (I'd say 95% of the time.)
09/29/2011
Contributor: LQ LQ
Highly single for the last while, so currently just masturbation, but I've already got a whole list of things for partner play should the occasion arise. I think if I were coupled up, I'd end up about half-and-half. (I reaaallly wanna play with the ice toys with someone!)
09/29/2011
Contributor: TexasFire TexasFire
Mostly for masturbation...and that goes for both her and I.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Mostly for masturbation.
09/29/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Masturbation or after sex. I'm yet to find one that works well for sex- hoping the Tango will change that.
09/29/2011