I just recently was able to have my first clitoral orgasm at the age of 30 and for me personally the Mimi works EVERY Time. I haven't written a review about it yet, but I can't say enough great words about it. It has different vibration settings and it also has pulsation modes. I first rub some arousal gel on my clit (we have some here but I don't know what the best is b/c I bought something from Walmart a long time ago and I'm the type of person that doesn't like buying something new until what I have is completely used up).

Then I turn the Mimi on the setting I like, set it on my clit, relax, close my eyes, visualize making love, and work my PC muscles by squeezing and releasing over and over again until I'm able to climax. For me, this routine takes about 5-10 minutes and I'm able to feel small tingles at first and my body "jumps" (kinda like a small electrical charge) and then it increases in tendency and you can feel it building, and then the tngles get stronger and stronger and finally fade.

This wasn't the first product that allowed me to climax, the Eroscillator was but that is really expensive. The only reason I tried it first was b/c I came to this site because I read a book called the orgasmic diet and it recommended that particular toy b/c it's designed for those that have never orgasm'd before. I don't regret buying it, but I wish I would have known the Mimi would do the same thing for less.

If you have any questions at all feel free to message me and I will answer any questions you may have. Sorry I'm not able to tell you anything about the Fairy because I do not have that product.

I'm sort of in the same position as you. If you truly are interested in the fairy or mimi, just start saving up those Eden points! So, if it doesn't quite work for you (which is hard to imagine it wouldn't), then you wouldn't have paid full price. That's what I'm doing at the moment, because I want to get the fairy mini and attachment. I have a feeling that I need something ultra strong to help me because nothing else has worked in the past. Though I do understand the need to have something quieter than that, just keep browsing and reading reviews, and you'll learn something new everyday to get a better sense of what you want.

I have a strong bullet with a remote, and to even remotely get there, I have to have it on full blast (body numbingly strong). But the trouble is that I always loose the spot after a while, somehow, and I haven't climaxed with it as of yet. It's been about 6 or so months and I've only tried a handful of times. That's my two cents if you're having trouble relaxing to get off like me and want one of those.

Good luck. I wish I could help more. When you finish posting your public profile here I want to follow you to see what you come up with!

Thank you so much !

I wish I could say something better than that, I really appreciate it !

I found my headphones and was able to watch the video reviews and got an idea of the noise level. And wow, the wand does sound just like a blender. I'm not embarrassed by the idea that they could hear a vibrator, but I don't want to be rude and wake anyone up just turning it on (and if it's THAT loud, the people in the floor ABOVE me might hear it, haha) !

So, thanks to unfulfilled (thank you so much !) and all the glowing reviews, I decided to take a chance on the MiMi and we'll see how it goes.

And, mrigirl, I had been looking at the Erocillator a long time ago. I think that or a wand might be my next stop if the MiMi doesn't work out. But it might be a few years until I can move to somewhere with enough privacy so I'm going to cross my fingers for now.