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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
When you have a few similar items on your wishlist how do you decide which one to get?

For example, I have quite a few clitoral vibrators on my wishlist. Eventually I plan to get all of them but I can't get them all at the same time. I just bough my first (We-Vibe touch) but still want the MiMi, Life, and a few others.

Price is an obvious factor, but how else do you make your decision? Especially if you plan to get them all eventually anyway.

I sometimes add things to my wishlist that I don't necessarily plan to get, but want to look into more later. Then there are the toys I will definitely get eventually.

The definite list is always so long that it's really hard for me to choose sometimes. What about you? Do you ever have the same problem?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Price is the only deciding factor
Alyona , allgood1 , no name 1 , Septimus , ifucsam , Tango8976
6  (13%)
What's in stock is the only deciding factor
BrittaniMaree
1  (2%)
I never have this problem (Explain)
I always know exactly what I want next
Girly Juice , Rossie , Gunsmoke , amazon
4  (9%)
Other
*Camoprincess* , Ryuson , Mwar , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , PropertyOfPotter , - Kira - , kitty1949 , KrissyNovacaine , Sera26 , Lioncub , LavenderSkies , lalapetitee , Mihoshi4301 , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , deltalima , Anne , ToyGeek , NarcissisticLust , brevado , Intrepid Niddering , darkr , sexyfun , Harpina is gone , Archery , potstickers , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , phoenixfire , edeneve , roskat , Dr. Curious , PurplePainter23 , Apple3192 , LuckyLady , Meredith Gray
34  (76%)
Total votes: 45
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Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
When you have a few similar items on your wishlist how do you decide which one to get?

For example, I have quite a few clitoral vibrators on my wishlist. Eventually I plan to get all of them but I can't get them all at the same time. I ... more
Depends on price and if it goes out of stock quick or not. I said price because I use points and gift cards for my orders since I can't afford to use the cash I have, with that said I usually try to save up for at least one or things I really want and get them at the same time. I rarely order one or two things at a time.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
I have a TON of wishlists. I have a large one of all of the things I want to get someday, but I also have a list of what's going to go into my 'next cart.' From this, I chose the ones that are on sale.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
I have multiple wishlists. The TOP wishlist has the fewest items because they are the ones I want the most. Sometimes, if I see an item almost out of stock, I'll buy that one because sometimes it takes a while for new ones to come in. The Lures help too. I'll go by the lure I set.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Lots of wishlist. 'Next on our list' will get added to the order then maybe a few odds and ends.
10/30/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Sale price and interest are the biggest factors, but aren't everything. I look for the one that seems the most cost friendly. Is it waterproof, rechargeable, and made of silicone? If another item is only splash resistant and is the same price, I choose the waterproof one. Does that make sense?
10/30/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I have most everything, so new products that I don't have are what I tend to buy. After that it goes based on what's on sale.
10/30/2012
Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
It really just depends on what I want, and how much I'm willing to spend, what's on sale, etc. I haven't ordered a toy in quite a while, actually.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
I like to buy a variety of things, so if I got a vibe last time, I'll maybe get lingerie or a book the next time. Beyond that, I try to rate how much I like each item when I first add it, so when I actually go to buy something, I don't have to think about it as much. Price is of course a factor as you said, especially with Eden Points.
10/30/2012
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
Sale price and interest are the biggest factors, but aren't everything. I look for the one that seems the most cost friendly. Is it waterproof, rechargeable, and made of silicone? If another item is only splash resistant and is the same price, ... more
This is true for me too. I try to grab stuff that is on sale first, and then go from there.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
Reviews really help me make up my mind on what products I end up purchasing.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
If it's on sale, how many points I have, how bad I really want it, or if I should wait for more reviews.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Alyona Alyona
Price is the only deciding factor
10/30/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
look at whats in and pick from there depending on my mood to I guess
10/30/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Ryuson
I have a TON of wishlists. I have a large one of all of the things I want to get someday, but I also have a list of what's going to go into my 'next cart.' From this, I chose the ones that are on sale.
I do the same thing It's much easier to separate wishlists.
10/30/2012
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
I am building my collection slowly. Instead of buying toys that may not be good because they are cheap I tend to save up for weeks or months to get that one toy that I know will work for me. I may have a smaller collection than most but its things I know I will enjoy. Its a huge plus if the things are also on sale!
10/30/2012
Contributor: Mihoshi4301 Mihoshi4301
I usually decide based on price, what's in stock, and anything I've been saving up for a long time for.
10/30/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
First I narrow it down to the things that will help add the most variety to my toybox. Else I'll end up with thirty glass dildos and only two clit vibes in my entire collection. Which, actually, is the directions things have gone, hence this strategy.
10/30/2012
Contributor: allgood1 allgood1
if i have the monye then i get it
10/30/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowedSeductress
When you have a few similar items on your wishlist how do you decide which one to get?

For example, I have quite a few clitoral vibrators on my wishlist. Eventually I plan to get all of them but I can't get them all at the same time. I ... more
I'm such a huge fan of my WeVibe Touch that I'm struggling finding a better rechargeable clitoral vibe. As I've been looking, price and the type of vibrations have been my deciding factors. I've settle on the Siri, but it's so pricey : (
10/30/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I plan for months
10/30/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
It depends on lots of factors. Whether or not the toy is on sale, which of the toys I want to buy next are even in stock, how badly do I want the toy, whether or not I have something similar. I tend to go for whatever has the biggest sale or I know will go out of stock soonest.
10/30/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I guide the progression of our sexual experiences. I've usually got a plan for what comes next - I pull the new ideas into from my wish lists and get them when we're ready for that step.

If a good sale comes along, I may buy sooner than planned.
10/31/2012
Contributor: darkr darkr
Price, sales, and what is going to add more variety to my collection
10/31/2012
Contributor: no name 1 no name 1
Price is an obvious factor
10/31/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I usually get whatever it is that I absolutely MUST have at that moment.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Archery Archery
Price and Innovation!
10/31/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Price, reviews and what is in stock at the time. I have a bunch of different wish lists for the things I want most as well.
12/31/2012
Contributor: Septimus Septimus
I sort my wish-lists in order of how badly I want the toys in them, so I always know which toys are at the top of my list.
When it's time to get a new toy, I go to my "Toys I Must Have" list. I usually try to buy the most expensive toy off of the list first, so that I won't have to save up as much for the next one.
If a toy is out of stock, that's obviously going to affect my choice. For example, I was planning on buying the Pure Plug Medium with my last order, but it was out of stock, so I picked up a set of Luna Beads instead.
12/31/2012
Contributor: phoenixfire phoenixfire
Price, what's in stock, how well reviewed things are, and what I'm in the mood for at the time I place a new order are all factors that come into play for me.
12/31/2012