I just got the Satisfyer Pro Penguin, and good lord almighty, it's been nothing short of life-changing. I can't recommend it highly enough. It's silicone, rechargable, waterproof, and extremely easy to use. It has 11 intensity settings, ranging from extremely gentle to knock-your-socks-off (and everything in between), so I feel like it's a toy that would work well for almost anyone with a clit, regardless of how much stimulation you need. It's also adorable and shaped like a penguin (which I love, but some people get a little weirded out by sex toys that resemble cute animals). It even has a little removable bow-tie, haha. It's also only about $40 (currently slightly on sale, I think it retails for around $50), which I consider very affordable for a high-quality rechargable toy.

I honestly wasn't sure about clit-sucking toys at first. The concept brought to mind those stories about men who get their dicks stuck in the vacuum cleaner when their wives are out of town. However, eventually my curiousity got the better of me and I decided I had to try one, and oh man, I'm so glad I did. I vastly prefer it to the more traditional vibrating sensation. The sensation is really hard to describe. It's not really much like actual oral sex (which it's advertised as imitating), but it doesn't feel like a normal vibrator, either. It's almost like a hybrid between a sucking, flicking, and vibrating sensation, but that's not quite accurate, either.....yeah, sorry, I really can't describe it beyond saying that it's absolutely amazing, haha.

Aside from the Penguin, my favourite toys for my clit are the Eros (which is a small rabbit, but I really like using the head externally on my clit) and the Magic Force wand massager with its silicone clit attachment. Both of those just produce traditional vibrations, but they're very deep and rumbly, which is what my clit prefers in terms of vibrations. Those were my go-to clit toys before they were usurped by the Penguin.

Do keep in mind that a lot of vibes that are designed for internal use can also work very well when used externally. As I mentioned above, one of my favourite clit toys is actually a rabbit. Really anything that vibrates can be held to your clit, even if it was technically designed to be used somewhere else. Just something to keep in mind as you shop for the perfect option. less

Glad I could help, and I hope you enjoy your Penguin!

Just a quick note: don't be disappointed if you test it out against your finger and don't think it feels like much (I was actually worried I'd gotten a dud at first). Even on the higher settings, it feels pretty underpowered and lack-luster when pressed against your arm or finger, but trust me, it's dynamite on your clit (works great on nipples, too). less

I've also heard great things about the Tango....but I just can't bring myself to spend that much money on something so small and made from what appears to be unremarkable plastic. Nothing against plastic toys, I just don't normally expect them to cost $70+. Though I guess you're really paying for the motor it contains, not the plastic shell. Still, I'd prefer a nice silky silicone coating or something. less

I hear you about the cost - but I have bought 2 of them (after the first failed after about 3 years ).

The hard plastic transfers vibration a bit better than softer silicone toys of the same design.

But Tango is a real standout when it comes to versatility. Many butt plugs and dildos come with little bullet vibes. These vibes are typically under-powered and use watch batteries. I insert my rechargable Tango into these toys and convert them into strongly vibrating plugs and dildos.

Anyway - for us it's worth $70 less

I hear you about the cost - but I have bought 2 of them (after the first failed after about 3 years ).

The hard plastic transfers vibration a bit better than softer silicone toys of the same design.

But Tango is a real standout when it comes to versatility. Many butt plugs and dildos come with little bullet vibes. These vibes are typically under-powered and use watch batteries. I insert my rechargable Tango into these toys and convert them into strongly vibrating plugs and dildos.

Anyway - for us it's worth $70 less