New to toys, what should I get???

New to toys, what should I get???

Vixen2000 Vixen2000
I just received my first toy order yesterday, but one of the items I am going to exchange because it only worked for a couple of minutes and then died. Plus it didn't do a single thing for me no matter which setting I used (Lia Lover i10 by California Exotics). The other one I got was the Clit Exciter and once I opened it I was feeling a little negative about it. To my surprise though it gave me an insane orgasm to the point where I started laughing uncontrollably! That has never happened before. My only issue with it is that I wish it wasn't made of hard plastic because I can't give myself the soft touch that I crave. So, now I don't know what to get in exchange for the Lia Lover. This is what I like......oral sex with lots of teasing all over. And incredibly feather light on my clit and inside and outside of my lips in the begining with a build-up of more direct pressure and intensity. I love the wet and soft feeling of tongue more than the feeling of fingers (on the outside of me, at least). I've been looking at several toys with "ticklers".

Now for the g-spot stuff. The best way for me to have a g-spot orgasm is by my husband's two fingers. That works so fast. I haven't even been able to give myself a g-spot orgasm, even with a toy. With the Lia Lover, once it was inside of me the once-powerful vibrations were hardly felt. Which leads me to believe that I need more direct, firm, and targeted stimulation, like fingers. I know I am VERY picky, but if you have any suggestions I would love to have them!
11/03/2011
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- Kira - - Kira -
The Sasi is supposed to simulate oral. I don't have it since I'm not big on oral. I'd suggest reading the reviews to see if it would fit what you're looking for. I've heard it heats up. I think I read it's actually supposed to do this though. So depends on if you like a little heat. I don't think it's overwhelmingly hot.

For G spot, Pure Wand all the way. No toy other than that will give me a G spot orgasm. You won't find anyone more picky than I am with G spot toys. It's made of metal so it will be firm, direct stimulation to the G spot. It has two ends, one of which is smaller and would be about the size equivalent of being fingered.

Hope this helps.
11/03/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
My Seduction by Evolved is my favorite G spot toy, but it is also hard plastic so it might not be as soft as you want. My Harmonia is made of flexible silicone, but because of how soft it is I can't get much g-spot pressure. I just got my Bimini ocean which is amazing at G spotting, but is about twice the price of what you had!
11/03/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Patchy Paul!
11/03/2011
- Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Vixen2000
I just received my first toy order yesterday, but one of the items I am going to exchange because it only worked for a couple of minutes and then died. Plus it didn't do a single thing for me no matter which setting I used (Lia Lover i10 by ...
The Sasi is supposed to simulate oral. I don't have it as I don't actually like oral (I'm weird, I know). Might want to read through some of the reviews on that one to see if it sounds like it would work for what you're talking about. The only bad thing I know of is that it heats up. Which I guess could be good in some ways if you like the warmth of a tongue.

For G spot play, I say Pure Wand all the way. I can't get a G spot orgasm from any toy other than this one, so you won't find many people pickier than I am on G spot toys. It's made of metal so it will give firm, direct pressure to the G spot. It has a thinner end that would be about the size equivalent of being fingered.

Hope this helps.
11/03/2011
Paladin Fantasys Paladin Fantasys
My wife is a clit girl and nothing brings her better orgasms than the tried and true Hitachi.

She's not vaginally orgasmic so we can't help you there.
11/03/2011
Red Riding Hood Red Riding Hood
The best clit massager I ever had was actually a Gspot massager. I can't really think of one that is that soft, but maybe you can kill two birds with one stone by massaging your clit with a gspot massager with a softer material. I love squishy toys myself, but I typically use toys with a varied intensity. My clit is super sensitive so I have to start light no matter what. Most of the ones I have tried are made of plastic or a firm jelly though. If I think of something, I'll give a holler.
11/04/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
The Sasi, like others have already mentioned, is the only oral sex simulator I know of, and is good if you like gentle clitoral stimulation.
11/04/2011
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