I am putting together a package for both me and my husband to enjoy when we see each other, we have been apart a little over a month due to work. I have selected the deep throat stroker, the siena rondo vibrator, and the extreme xtasy smokey elephant cock ring. This will be our first time using toys and I want him to be excited and hope you can let me know if my selections are stimulating. Also if you can suggest some videos for us to watch, I like it to start out slow heavy petting, then real exciting, and a story line would help. thanks