Well, it depends on your goal. If you want her really warmed up, it can certainly help. If you want her to have an orgasm in before intercourse, it may help with that, too. If you want to "stretch" her out cause you have a gigantic penis, a toy might even help with that.

I agree with Adriana. Also, ask her what she hopes to achieve from her sexual experience. If her main goal is a mind-blowing orgasm you could try using a small vibrator on her clitoris while penetrating her.

If, as Adriana said, you have a big penis, maybe prolonging her foreplay or giving her oral sex would help relax her and her vaginal muscles.

In summary, ask her what she would like.

I agree with Adriana. Also, ask her what she hopes to achieve from her sexual experience. If her main goal is a mind-blowing orgasm you could try using a small vibrator on her clitoris while penetrating her.

If, as Adriana said, you have a big penis, maybe prolonging her foreplay or giving her oral sex would help relax her and her vaginal muscles.

In summary, ask her what she would like.

My utmost goal in my sexual endeavors is pleasing my partner. I know that if she is pleased that she will in turn please me. If a vibrator will please her before, during, or after sex, then I will use one on her. Lately, my partner and I have gotten in the habit of using one of our stronger, quieter bullet vibes on her clitoris while I work on her breasts until she has a clitoral orgasm prior to intercourse. This warms her up sufficiently so that she is ready to have a g-spot orgasm while we have intercourse. It seems to work very well for us.

I'll put this simple: If it feels right, do it.

It's not what you should or shouldn't do, or what someone else does, it's what works for you and her. Get creative and do what feels good, you know?

If she likes it and your comfy with it do it!

I like it...but ask your partner! We're all different.

If she wants you to? Sure