Since you started using toys have you found it more difficult to have an orgasm during regular "organic" sex?

Since you started using toys have you found it more difficult to have an orgasm during regular "organic" sex?

Vixen2000 Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
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It's way more difficult!
3  (8%)
Sometimes it's weaker.
3  (8%)
No, no problems.
33  (85%)
Total votes: 39
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Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
Nope.
05/22/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
I haven't found it to be a problem.
05/22/2012
G&L G&L
No problem what so ever.
05/22/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
no problems so far, but I haven't found a toy that I've fallen in love with yet
05/22/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
Nope, if anything it's easier to have an orgasm.
05/22/2012
Kissy Kissy
That is why I like to always use a toy when we are intimate together!
05/22/2012
Badass Badass
We use toys while in the act so that I come as hard as he does.
05/22/2012
Kitka Kitka
Nope, if anything using toys has made it easier for me
05/22/2012
roskat roskat
No way, this hasn't happened to me.
05/22/2012
Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
I know how you feel.

I haven't had actual sex in... well, longer than I'd like to admit, and it's extremely hard to orgasm during even manual stimulation anymore when I do mutual masturbation with my partner.

I don't lose interest in sex, I just find it difficult to orgasm.
05/22/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I have no problem
05/22/2012
xGOLDx xGOLDx
No problem, I just find it not really comparable. It is a different time of orgasm.
05/22/2012
Sangsara Sangsara
YES BUT IT WAS ALWAYS HARD FOR ME TO CUM DURING TOYLESS SEX ESPECIALLY STIM GEL LESS SEX
05/23/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
Nope, it's easier because I've discovered my g-spot.
05/23/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
I haven't had any problems.
05/23/2012
SkinFlute SkinFlute
I find I have easier and better ones because I know my anatomy and what I like better when I play.
05/23/2012
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
I already had problems that way. Toys are the only way I CAN orgasm.
05/24/2012
Dulsanaya Dulsanaya
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
Umm...kinda hard to tell when there hasn't been any sex since purchase or long before it with hubby. Might need a 4th response, I suggest "Sex? What's that?"
05/24/2012
richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
no problems.
05/25/2012
YouAreMyFetish YouAreMyFetish
The only way I can orgasm with my partner during sex is to use a vibe on my clit (still haven't mastered the vaginal orgasm, but I can tell it might be possible some day!). And I'm pretty sure the orgasms are stronger during sex with a toy. Extra stimulation rather than just my toy!
05/25/2012
elli elli
No, not at all. But we often use toys together too
05/25/2012
Total posts: 22
Unique posters: 22