Since you started using toys have you found it more difficult to have an orgasm during regular "organic" sex?

Contributor: Vixen2000 Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
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It's way more difficult!
3  (8%)
Sometimes it's weaker.
3  (8%)
No, no problems.
33  (85%)
Total votes: 39
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Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
Nope.
05/22/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I haven't found it to be a problem.
05/22/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
No problem what so ever.
05/22/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
no problems so far, but I haven't found a toy that I've fallen in love with yet
05/22/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Nope, if anything it's easier to have an orgasm.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
That is why I like to always use a toy when we are intimate together!
05/22/2012
Contributor: Badass Badass
We use toys while in the act so that I come as hard as he does.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Nope, if anything using toys has made it easier for me
05/22/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
No way, this hasn't happened to me.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
I know how you feel.

I haven't had actual sex in... well, longer than I'd like to admit, and it's extremely hard to orgasm during even manual stimulation anymore when I do mutual masturbation with my partner.

I don't lose interest in sex, I just find it difficult to orgasm.
05/22/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
I have no problem
05/22/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
No problem, I just find it not really comparable. It is a different time of orgasm.
05/22/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
YES BUT IT WAS ALWAYS HARD FOR ME TO CUM DURING TOYLESS SEX ESPECIALLY STIM GEL LESS SEX
05/23/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Nope, it's easier because I've discovered my g-spot.
05/23/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
I haven't had any problems.
05/23/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
I find I have easier and better ones because I know my anatomy and what I like better when I play.
05/23/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
I already had problems that way. Toys are the only way I CAN orgasm.
05/24/2012
Contributor: Dulsanaya Dulsanaya
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
Umm...kinda hard to tell when there hasn't been any sex since purchase or long before it with hubby. Might need a 4th response, I suggest "Sex? What's that?"
05/24/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Vixen2000
Sometimes when I've been using toys a lot I just don't have much interest in sex with my husband because it gives me a weaker orgasm than a vibrator. Of course, you don't get an emotional connection with a toy...well, some people might.
no problems.
05/25/2012
Contributor: YouAreMyFetish YouAreMyFetish
The only way I can orgasm with my partner during sex is to use a vibe on my clit (still haven't mastered the vaginal orgasm, but I can tell it might be possible some day!). And I'm pretty sure the orgasms are stronger during sex with a toy. Extra stimulation rather than just my toy!
05/25/2012
Contributor: elli elli
No, not at all. But we often use toys together too
05/25/2012