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Contributor: maimoromo2004 maimoromo2004
How to make my boyfriend talk to me dirty ?!
I love that but i'm so shy to tell him talking to me that way ... hope to help me
05/01/2013
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Contributor: maimoromo2004 maimoromo2004
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Originally posted by maimoromo2004
How to make my boyfriend talk to me dirty ?!
I love that but i'm so shy to tell him talking to me that way ... hope to help me
... no one knows ?!! (((
05/02/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
One of the easiest ways is to ask him things like:
What do you want to do to me?
How do I make you feel?
Do you ever think sexy thoughts about me when I'm not around? Like what?

By prompting, hopefully that will be enough of a hint. And since you're too shy to ask, this is a work-around for that too. Good luck!
05/03/2013
Contributor: Mr. John Mr. John
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Originally posted by kdlt
One of the easiest ways is to ask him things like:
What do you want to do to me?
How do I make you feel?
Do you ever think sexy thoughts about me when I'm not around? Like what?

By prompting, hopefully that will be enough of a ... more
Good suggestions for maimoromo2004. I also kinda wish my wife liked hearing dirty talk, but she does not.
05/03/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
Prompting questions, like kadelette stated, are a great start!
However, i feel, it's always good to be open with your partner about things you like and would like to try in the bedroom.
05/04/2013
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Firstly, please don't try to force anyone to do something they might not like/be into. If you want your boyfriend or wife or partner to be into dirty talking and you don't think they are--talk to them about it. Sit them down and say "hey, babe, it'd really turn me on if you talked dirty to me sometimes. Would you be comfortable doing that with/for me sometime?" And if they say no, respect that.
05/05/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
i have trouble getting hubby to talk dirty to me
05/06/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Talk dirty to him. Cross that line for him. Ask him afterword's if he liked it. You can then figure out if he would be willing to talk that way.
05/07/2013
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
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I agree....talk it out. Or start with something simple like telling him the things you like that he does to you, how it makes you feel, etc.
05/07/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I have trouble with this too (my partner just isn't very vocal, and I'm a bit shy at times). And I agree with kadelette's idea- to ask questions that will lead to the answers you want.

A good thing to keep in mind with anything you want in the bedroom is to talk about it during a time not related to sex. This gives your partner the freedom to discuss any doubts, and not feel obligated or uncomfortable.

Also, just try to relax and take a deep breath before you talk to him. I'm sure he will appreciate your honesty about it (particularly if he knows you are shy and that it is hard for you to talk about) and want to try new things with you to make you happy.
05/11/2013
Contributor: Ace <3 Ace <3
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Originally posted by maimoromo2004
How to make my boyfriend talk to me dirty ?!
I love that but i'm so shy to tell him talking to me that way ... hope to help me
The best way to really get him to do it is just tell him. The first time exchange dirty talk with each other and reward him for doing so. The positive reinforcement works wonders on those who are more shy...
05/11/2013