The only way I can have an orgasm is if I use a vibrator for clit stimulation of some sort and my boyfriend said he's willing to try using one with me while we're having sex we're just not sure what the best way would be to hold it (who should hold it) and/or what position would work best for us to use one. We're pretty new to this so any advice would be helpful!
Tips on using a vibe during intercourse
StephieBoo02
02/23/2011
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With my wife, she controls it, since she knows precisely where to put it. I imagine exactly how to use it differs from woman to woman. My wife controlling it is predicated on my doing most of the physical work. If she was on top, I would probably be the one who controlled the vibrator since she would be doing more of the work. Personally, I find it difficult to focus on two orgasms, so she lets me focus on mine, and she focuses on hers.
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StephieBoo02
The only way I can have an orgasm is if I use a vibrator for clit stimulation of some sort and my boyfriend said he's willing to try using one with me while we're having sex we're just not sure what the best way would be to hold it (who
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The only way I can have an orgasm is if I use a vibrator for clit stimulation of some sort and my boyfriend said he's willing to try using one with me while we're having sex we're just not sure what the best way would be to hold it (who should hold it) and/or what position would work best for us to use one. We're pretty new to this so any advice would be helpful!
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I'm not sure there is a bad position in which to use it, but it might take some adjustments in stance. For instance, in missionary, I need to sit up on my knees more rather than being on top of her. With doggystyle, she needs to shift her weight so that she';s supporting her weight on one arm rather than two.
02/23/2011
Vaccinium has great advice for you.
I'd also like to recommend a smaller bullet type vibrator that will stay "out of the way" while helping you achieve your orgasm. I personally prefer the bullets galore kit, but that's just me. That one is pretty easy for either one of you to hold, and small enough that it won't be cumbersome. The only real drawback to it is that it is corded.
I'd also like to recommend a smaller bullet type vibrator that will stay "out of the way" while helping you achieve your orgasm. I personally prefer the bullets galore kit, but that's just me. That one is pretty easy for either one of you to hold, and small enough that it won't be cumbersome. The only real drawback to it is that it is corded.
02/23/2011
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We do it the same way!
Originally posted by
Vaccinium
With my wife, she controls it, since she knows precisely where to put it. I imagine exactly how to use it differs from woman to woman. My wife controlling it is predicated on my doing most of the physical work. If she was on top, I would probably
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With my wife, she controls it, since she knows precisely where to put it. I imagine exactly how to use it differs from woman to woman. My wife controlling it is predicated on my doing most of the physical work. If she was on top, I would probably be the one who controlled the vibrator since she would be doing more of the work. Personally, I find it difficult to focus on two orgasms, so she lets me focus on mine, and she focuses on hers.
I'm not sure there is a bad position in which to use it, but it might take some adjustments in stance. For instance, in missionary, I need to sit up on my knees more rather than being on top of her. With doggystyle, she needs to shift her weight so that she';s supporting her weight on one arm rather than two. less
I'm not sure there is a bad position in which to use it, but it might take some adjustments in stance. For instance, in missionary, I need to sit up on my knees more rather than being on top of her. With doggystyle, she needs to shift her weight so that she';s supporting her weight on one arm rather than two. less
In doggy style though I just keep my butt in the air and my chest to the bed with one arm resting and the other one holding the vibe to my clit.
When I lay on my back, and my guy is penetrating me face to face, he usually leaves me enough space to use my vibe. He'll kneel back onto his heels, or he'll be on his fours but my knees are supported by his forearms or shoulders and I have plenty of space to use my vibe.
Hope that helps.
02/23/2011
Mimi would also be a good clit vibe to use with your partner and it can go in the shower since it's waterproof!
02/23/2011
im looking to get something for me and my gf for when i go down on her i need help on what to get its the first time she would ever use a toy
02/23/2011
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