If you have vibrators already that you love - why do you continue to buy more? (Or have you stopped buying more?)

Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
This probably sounds dumb - but my husband and I are trying to be careful with our money - yet I keep reading reviews of different products (especially vibrators) and wanting to get them.

But - I'm currently regularly achieving the Big O every time (many times) by using the same two or three vibrators and I'm currently happy. So I'm trying to find reasons why I should or should not buy any more.

(OK - so I do have one coming in tomorrow that is longer and has more girth than my others but that was for a specific reason).

I just hate the idea of buying a ton of toys and then tossing them out in a year or so and sticking with the same $100 or $200 worth of toys we started with.
10/13/2011
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Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
I have 2 vibes I actually like, I might search out one or two more different types (a vibrating butt plug and a targeted clitoral vibe), but dildos I can never get enough of. Oh, and I want to see what all the hype with the Hitachi is all about if I ever get the chance.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I'm not sure what you're asking here - why collect and use different ones? That's like asking a gun collector the same question. They all shoot, right? S/he'll give you different points around them.

Then there's the body of your post, concerning justifying the purchasing or not-purchasing toys. Do what's okay with you - use your EF points to supplement your orders, or join the review program and get them for free so you can write about how they work.

There are no limits to pleasure or the imagination here, only what you personally impose on yourself.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I'm not sure what you're asking here - why collect and use different ones? That's like asking a gun collector the same question. They all shoot, right? S/he'll give you different points around them.

Then there's the body of ... more
Yeah - sorta "why collect and use different ones".

Um...let me put it this way. Right now we've spent maybe $200 and have some vibrators. They're awesome (even if the reviews aren't as good as other products).

Now I find myself looking at some vibrators that are more luxury items - but I find myself wondering, "If the current vibrators I have make me feel great - should I spend $X on something that might not make me feel as great."

I guess in today's economy, I'm trying to discipline myself to be a better steward of our money - been here almost 2 weeks now I think and have had something like 5 orders.

I need to put a limit on myself.

Mind you - my husband is like, "If you feel we need it or it would work better - try to get it if it goes on sale."
10/13/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Yeah - sorta "why collect and use different ones".

Um...let me put it this way. Right now we've spent maybe $200 and have some vibrators. They're awesome (even if the reviews aren't as good as other ... more
Total 'kid in a candy store' feeling, got ya.

You could just save the buying of those types for something special - like get one for Christmas or a birthday, wedding anniversary, raise at work ... so it'll be a reward or present instead of feeling guilty about spending the money.
10/13/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Even if I have a few "go to" toys, I will often look at others that have a different feature, so I can try new things. I try not to get duplicates, though.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I like to try new things! Like even though I have the Birthstones bullet and the Waterwhirl for awesome clitoral stimulation, I just had to get the Kiki PicoBong to try!
10/14/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I like to cover my basics and then window shop until need arrises.

Right now I have clit and internal vibes covered, however, none of them are waterproof )= so I'd be willing to spend money on something new if it filled that gap for me.

After that I'd probably wait until I fell into a heap of cash to spoil myself with or was given a gift card or new toy directly.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
I guess I keep wanting to try others because I just enjoy variety, and most of my vibrators feel different to me than the others. It's kind of like when I started drinking water instead of sodas. At first, all water tasted the same. But now I can taste subtle differences in all the brands, and I want different ones at different times. It's like that.

Not to mention the fact that many of our vibrators give me different kinds of orgasms. For example, we just got a really inexpensive clit toy off of Eden that takes a long time to get me "built up" to the big O, but literally gives me orgasms that last 20-30 seconds long when it finally happens (either that or it's giving me multiples in a row and I just haven't realized it!). I've not had any other vibrator do that before, so now I'm curious to see if there is a vibe out there that can make one last even longer. It sounds weird, I know
10/14/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I have thousands of dollars invested in toys and porn. I continue to buy more for a few reasons. One, because I have a shopping issue. I also have thousands of dollars of eyeshadow. (About 200 last count) Mostly I continue to buy because each toy will give a slightly different experience. Some may give an orgasam with a slow build up that's more intense, some may make me cum in five seconds. It's fun to get new things and try them out with my husband. It keeps things from getting stale when there's always something new coming in to try. Like an ooo let's see what this one can do feeling. It's just another excuse to explore the boundaries of our sexuality. After being with someone for a while you have to find ways to make sure you don't get in a rut and sex toys have been our way to do that.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
Instead of using so much money, save up for the toy you really want. Wait for sales. Do the review program. SAVE POINTS. I know we save our points to get the items we really want when the money isn't there to buy them.

Secondly, We have many different toys because we don't like everything the same all the time. Do I have ones I go back to? Yes of course. I just see it as something to keep us moving into a positive direction instead of going stale and boring.
10/14/2011
Contributor: acessorie acessorie
Plain and simple I'm a toy hoader and I want to feel them all!
10/14/2011
Contributor: Neurogasm Neurogasm
I have my set that I like a lot, but I like to change up which one I use when, depending on my mood. I also get excited for the new releases from the companies I like--Fun Factory's G4 really has me intrigued, and every time Lelo brings out a new thing, I squeal. XD

Really, though, I just wonder how different shapes, strengths, and sizes would feel. I get curious and want to try for myself.
10/14/2011
Contributor: Flash777 Flash777
Quote:
Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
This probably sounds dumb - but my husband and I are trying to be careful with our money - yet I keep reading reviews of different products (especially vibrators) and wanting to get them.

But - I'm currently regularly achieving the Big O ... more
Can never have enough.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
I have 'slots' that I want to fill. There are different experiences, and I want a toy to suit each desire. So I have a Hitachi for the times when I really need to get off, and I'm looking for a silicone-lube-compatib le STRONG rechargeable clit vibrator (eying the tango) for use during sex. I want a vibrator that is good for getting aroused, particularly one that doesn't have issues with overheating, but can still finish the job.

I personally wouldn't buy 17 rabbits or 20 g-spot dildos or all of the egg vibrators carried on Eden. I find something that works well for me, and then I don't feel the need to continue looking for toys that are similar.

The exception for me is BDSM gear. That's the one thing that will make me go glassy-eyed and make impulse purchases. I'm struggling to not get the Metal Worx locking cock-ring, even though I know the lock actually makes it easier to get off and that metal cock rings don't work for us. It's just such a hot idea.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I always want to try new things! There are so many options...different materials, shapes, sizes, types of vibrations, I can't resist.
10/15/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
I love variety and trying new things. The next toy I try might replace a good one and make it an ok one.It is the curse of the unknown pleasure!
10/15/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
For me, no two vibes actually feel the same, and my mood so dictates what vibe I will use.
I have been orgasmicly surprised by some vibes so the quest is worth it. But I am careful as to the toys I buy as my finances are tight; sales, points and reviews are all a means. Reading reviews also helps.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
My boyfriend asks the same question. Just because I'm happy with what I own doesn't mean there won't be something I would like way more. I also like to have different shapes, sizes, and vibration styles. I see reviewing as a hobby, so I constantly like to try new things and review them, for my own interest, and to help other people find things that will work for them.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Most have already expressed good reasons - but even it's a little repetitive;

We've learned a lot by trying new things - it's a process and new concepts are constantly being put out there by very creative companies. Had we settled on our original successes - we would have missed out on a lot of fun.

More importantly the same toy rarely works 2x in a row for my wife. No idea why, but the variety is fun for both of us.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Thanks to everyone for not judging me, etc. for asking. I certainly wasn't being critical.

I guess maybe I understand sorta. We just got our order yesterday and here I am turning around today and placing another order (I'd received $30 in a gift card for 3 articles that will be published next week plus I had $16 in points).

We decided to keep the 2" diameter vibrator we received yesterday - but decided we needed a 1 3/4" or 1 5/8" vibrator to help me work up to it.

Hence...the purchase. We got the Roulette Croupier (something like that) - I thought about the red one that Gunsmoke reviewed but we decided that the Croupier would work better for me - PLUS - we both LOVED the video review.

Then I realized - I could've gotten the Girdle I've been wanting by the same folks who did Opis....it would've been the same width.

Oh well...
10/15/2011
Contributor: NaughtyNikkie NaughtyNikkie
Gosh.... I have easily $1000.00 worth the toys & keep adding..
Why you ask?!?!

There is ALWAYS something Diff from what I have even if it's a diff in just the vibration or a 1/4 in thickness. I like to have LOTS of toys, I'm a sex addict & without my toys I may kill my hubby lol, his poor dick would fall off !!
10/15/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Thanks to everyone for not judging me, etc. for asking. I certainly wasn't being critical.

I guess maybe I understand sorta. We just got our order yesterday and here I am turning around today and placing another order (I'd ... more
You get it - sometimes I feel like the manager of a baseball team, always looking for new players to fill holes on my offense or defense. My person strategy is that I draft for talent!?
10/15/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
You get it - sometimes I feel like the manager of a baseball team, always looking for new players to fill holes on my offense or defense. My person strategy is that I draft for talent!?
Sometimes I wonder if that is how my husband feels.

Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama~~We have invested about $5k in the pursuit of finding the perfect candidates suitable for remaining in our toybox long-term. We wanted to make sure we both knew what worked for us and what didn't (as far as materials, textures, and size-wise goes) prior to venturing into premium, luxury toys.

We don't buy many vibrators anymore, we buy dildos. I fell in love with a certain company and now I want one in every size they make! They are so pretty too.
10/15/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Sometimes I wonder if that is how my husband feels.

Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama~~We have invested about $5k in the pursuit of finding the perfect candidates suitable for remaining in our toybox long-term. We wanted to make sure we both knew ... more
Redboxbaby - we buy mostly Vixskin dildos these days as well - but I did splurge on the Form 2 in spite of the glitch. It works great when she's on her knees above me - with me or Vixskin Johnny inside, the twin motors hammer her clit to great effect.
10/17/2011
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Honestly, considering how much room I'm wasting on toys.. I'm with you. I can't help but wonder now only why do I get more but why do I have so many already!
10/25/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I try to get something a little different every time - different feel, different shape, larger, smaller, more power, more functions, etc. And I try to get materials that will either last my lifetime (silicone, glass) or at least a few years with proper care (TPR, TPR silicone, plastic) so that I'm not replacing a good toy every six months to a year.

Sometimes, though, I'll admit that it's just fun to order, wait for, and receive a package. I try to be good and not order too often, though. It's getting easier now that I've got a sizable collection of toys I really like.
10/25/2011