What new vibrator should i get?

The Forum Moderator might not know the answer. Try something like a traditional vibrator, like the Purple Massager or Blue Massager. Or try a silicone dildo, try something simple. Don't overdo it.

I recommend you not try anything JELLY, only use SILICONE, and only use waterbased lube on silicone toys. Just search for silicone and traditional plastic vibes. That's my recommendation. Good luck!