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Contributor: Raym Raym
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For a girl who has never used a vibrator, what is a good one to get her?
11/09/2011
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Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
There's a few things to consider. What type of stimulation does she like clit or vaginal or both? How sensitive is she when it comes to stimulation? If she's extremely sensitive she's not going to want something with extreme power. What is she comfortable with? The reviews here will offer great advice that answer these questions.
11/09/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
There's a few things to consider. What type of stimulation does she like clit or vaginal or both? How sensitive is she when it comes to stimulation? If she's extremely sensitive she's not going to want something with extreme power. ... more
She loves both, she orgasms most easily when their is penetration and clitoral stimulation though. She is not extremely sensitive until she orgasms. Lol and she is open to trying just about anything at least once.
11/11/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Raym
She loves both, she orgasms most easily when their is penetration and clitoral stimulation though. She is not extremely sensitive until she orgasms. Lol and she is open to trying just about anything at least once.
Clitoral vibes like bullets are easy to use during intercourse. For one that is insertable, I would not got with a vibrator, I would go with a dildo (glass but watch the texture) and use a clitoral vibe, but you could get a rabbit also. The issue with a rabbit is that a lot of times they do not line up well and lack power. So I recommend getting a clitoral vibe and if she wants to insert something then a dildo my favorite is glass. You have to watch texture with it because it could be too much for her, you will want to go with smooth or swirls, nubs are too much usually for a beginner. Have fun.
11/12/2011
Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I would go for one that's fairly small, and without a lot of texture. Something multi-speed as well.
11/13/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
I made the mistake of going with a rabbit first. It didn't line up and it was weak. I wonder if you should judt get her a dildo and a bullet. That's what myself and my gf enjoy most. Something smooth yet firm. Have fun!
11/13/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
I have a glass dildo for her, should I get a clitoral vibrator for her then?
11/18/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Raym
I have a glass dildo for her, should I get a clitoral vibrator for her then?
If she enjoys firm toys then the glass will be perfect. A bullet would be awesome to use with it. I like to use warm water to temp play with my glass toys and even put my bullet up against the glass toys.
12/01/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
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Originally posted by lalapetitee
If she enjoys firm toys then the glass will be perfect. A bullet would be awesome to use with it. I like to use warm water to temp play with my glass toys and even put my bullet up against the glass toys.
She has never had other toys, she definitely enjoys her glass dildo though. What type of bullet would you suggest?
12/02/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Raym
She has never had other toys, she definitely enjoys her glass dildo though. What type of bullet would you suggest?
I love my xtreme gspot bullet. I got it as a gift. It is cheap and amazing. Hope she enjoys it.
12/07/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
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Originally posted by lalapetitee
I love my xtreme gspot bullet. I got it as a gift. It is cheap and amazing. Hope she enjoys it.
Me too! I am pretty sure she will though.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Retro.old Retro.old
Try Mimi -she will love it!
12/08/2011
Contributor: Ms. N Ms. N
I would go with a bullet vibe.
12/08/2011
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Every girl Ive gone out with has had at least one bullet. Seems to be the standard starter, I'd give it a try.
12/08/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I would go with a good bullet size vibe, or a small clit vibrator. Maybe the We-vibe Tango/Salsa, or the Je Joue Mimi. For insertables, I would go with a high quality silicone dildo.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Nissa Nissa Nissa Nissa
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Originally posted by Raym
For a girl who has never used a vibrator, what is a good one to get her?
Start with a clit vibe. Fun for both parties involved
12/09/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Perhaps we should ask if you have a certain budget in mind. The Mimi for instance is far more expensive than a bullet but we want to give you ideas that you can actually afford!
12/09/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Perhaps we should ask if you have a certain budget in mind. The Mimi for instance is far more expensive than a bullet but we want to give you ideas that you can actually afford!
Lol thank you for mentioning it! Yes, unfortunately the military does not afford me super expensive toys though I wish I could get her the best possible. Any affordable bullets or clit vibes that would be recommended?
12/09/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
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Originally posted by Raym
Lol thank you for mentioning it! Yes, unfortunately the military does not afford me super expensive toys though I wish I could get her the best possible. Any affordable bullets or clit vibes that would be recommended?
The colt prowler, dream massager or dream massager g, the bluberry bliss and a few more.
12/09/2011
Contributor: lalapetitee lalapetitee
I know there are more but I can't think of any. Check out the updates rumbly thread I started.
12/09/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Raym
Lol thank you for mentioning it! Yes, unfortunately the military does not afford me super expensive toys though I wish I could get her the best possible. Any affordable bullets or clit vibes that would be recommended?
The mini wanachi is a good one. But bullets are a nice start.
12/09/2011