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Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
My husband and I are 18 years apart. So this happens a few times to us.
Dr: Do you have family here?
Andy: *Points to me*
Cheryl: :3 Me.
Dr: So your daughter.
Cheryl: I'M HIS WIFE...
Andy: *laughing*

Does that happen to you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, all the time.
Beck , Taylor , MistressDandelion , Red Vinyl Kitty
4
Every now and then.
underHim , Kitka , TitsMcScandal , Pixel , SJ88 , Alan & Michele , Lano4ka , ac0313 , Destri , The Mother of a SiNner , TheHardOne , Silverdrop , Mamastoys , P'Gell , FLUFFERKINZ , jinxydc , britanny0620 , sexykiss , Short Cake , Scrawberry78 , Woman China , deltalima
22
No, we're not that far apart in age.
EdenJP , LAndJ , padmeamidala , Nora , ellejay , Curiouscat , Gunsmoke , Rossie , married with children , MissCandyland , JadeSummers218 , fredacarl , woodsdragon , MamaDivine , gorgeous , Stinkytofu10 , Chami , dhig , StarFire , gloomybear , UnknownGirl , puppylove , JennSenn , SouthernBelle , Terri69 , Mistress Sassy , asphyxia , jmex83 , xwolfiex , britanny0620 , Teaser , hillys , xMila , Talena , MaeGal , Sinfully , aliceinthehole , Gone (LD29) , booboo111926 , Rockasaurus , remember.me , Nora29714 , ghent529 , LavenderSkies , legna , Stagger13 , sixfootsexxx , Cora Jane , heather-mooney , Billie Bones , Peggi , travelnurse , Rory , BG529 , collifornia , TrenchcoatHunters
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Total votes: 82 (81 voters)
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02/22/2012
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Contributor: underHim underHim
The fuel delivery guy came to the door and told me to tell my dad something---I was tempted to say Oh I will tell my daddy- but I was good! (He is 23 years older than me) I think I would have been in for a spanking if I did that! Guy starts apologizing and then changes the subject. I think it is kind of sexy!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Only a few times so far, but it's hilarious when it happens.
02/22/2012
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
With my ex it would happen way more often. We had an age difference of 18 years. With my current boyfriend it doesn't happen. We are only 10 years apart though.
02/22/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Hasn't happened to me yet...
02/22/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I've been mistaken for my Sir's daughter before. It amuses the hell out of both of us.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
I have had many rude and awful comments at us, but we laugh it off.
02/22/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
We're less than two years apart, so we never have this problem.
02/22/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
We have a 10 year age gap, but he's too young looking for it to happen currently.
02/22/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I have the opposite problem: people mistake my father and me for a couple. I don't look anything like him (I look like my mother's side of the family), but it's still disconcerting.
02/22/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Other?

32 years between U/us and nobody has ever misunderstood O/our R/relationship... Guess because W/we really behave like a real couple, guess it would help you guys too!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Curiouscat Curiouscat
I don't get this as my bf is only a year older
02/22/2012
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
Oh geez... apparently, I look a lot younger than I am. I used to have a boyfriend who looked older than he was. Weren't actually that far apart in age. Just three years. So, we never really thought about it.

Until we took a vacation out of the country. Maybe the customs officer was just kind of bored that day, but we got pulled aside and all our information and passports were gone over with a fine toothed comb. He kept asking a lot of questions that seemed odd at the time. He seemed really reluctant to admit everything was in order. We were confused as hell.

Eventually, it dawned on me, the customs officer thought I was under aged and my boyfriend was some older man trying to abscond with me out of the country!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
Quote:
Originally posted by CoffeeCup
Oh geez... apparently, I look a lot younger than I am. I used to have a boyfriend who looked older than he was. Weren't actually that far apart in age. Just three years. So, we never really thought about it.

Until we took a vacation out of ... more
Oh my!
02/22/2012
Contributor: Lano4ka Lano4ka
Once or twice. I find it hilarious every time
02/24/2012
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
The most memorable time this has happened is when we went to the dentist and her hygienist asked if I was her father. My girlfriend answered, "No" and the hygienist did not speak at all after that!
02/25/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
we are only a few months apart. But I know friends who this happens to all the time.
02/25/2012
Contributor: Megan Jean Megan Jean
Hah, we're 8 years apart, but he's hispanic and I'm white as snow. So it hasn't happened
02/25/2012
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
I have the opposite problem: people mistake my father and me for a couple. I don't look anything like him (I look like my mother's side of the family), but it's still disconcerting.
Lol oh dear.

I've never had this happen with me, but I meet with my teacher regularly after he was laid off. He's about forty years my senior, and people give us odd looks every time we meet at a restaurant to talk about art and psychology. I love the man to death, but I couldn't see myself with him that way, and I don't think he could see me with him either lol.
02/26/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
We are only a year apart.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Destri Destri
I am 20 years older than my hubby, and get mistaken for his mother from time to time. I don't really like it, but I do understand it.
02/26/2012
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
My husband and I are 18 years apart. So this happens a few times to us.
Dr: Do you have family here?
Andy: *Points to me*
Cheryl: :3 Me.
Dr: So your daughter.
Cheryl: I'M HIS WIFE...
Andy: *laughing*

Does that happen to you?
sometimes because he looks younger iget asked that question
02/26/2012
Contributor: fredacarl fredacarl
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
My husband and I are 18 years apart. So this happens a few times to us.
Dr: Do you have family here?
Andy: *Points to me*
Cheryl: :3 Me.
Dr: So your daughter.
Cheryl: I'M HIS WIFE...
Andy: *laughing*

Does that happen to you?
No, we're not that far apart in age.
03/02/2012
Contributor: MamaDivine MamaDivine
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
My husband and I are 18 years apart. So this happens a few times to us.
Dr: Do you have family here?
Andy: *Points to me*
Cheryl: :3 Me.
Dr: So your daughter.
Cheryl: I'M HIS WIFE...
Andy: *laughing*

Does that happen to you?
My hubby and I are only a year apart. My ex husband and I were only four years apart. It was a problem when we were younger, because of the age/consent laws...but didn't have any issues as we got older.
03/19/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
My husband and I are 18 years apart. So this happens a few times to us.
Dr: Do you have family here?
Andy: *Points to me*
Cheryl: :3 Me.
Dr: So your daughter.
Cheryl: I'M HIS WIFE...
Andy: *laughing*

Does that happen to you?
Well, sometimes they think I am her little brother
04/20/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
This does not happen to me but we are about 15 years apart. We live in a small town and most people know we are together so its not an issue for us really. Some people may say it joking around but never a serious question.
04/23/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
no my bf and i are only 2 years appart however he is 20 and looks about 25 and i am 18 and look about 12 so he gets ALOT of dirty looks
04/23/2012
Contributor: Mamastoys Mamastoys
we are only 3 1/2 years apart but when our daughter is with us, people think we are both his daughters..he just shakes his head and says how crazy they are! lol
05/01/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
My husband is 13 years older but he is African (black) and I am white so theres no mistaking that we're not related. lol
05/01/2012
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
No. We're not that far apart, but I'd imagine that would be pretty embarrassing. Also, I'd hate knowing that my partner is most likely going to die that much sooner than I am.
05/01/2012