My husband has E.D. and is never in the mood. I thought for years it was because of me because I gained 60 lbs. and had an amputation done on my right leg below the knee. Then I thought it was from his medications for high blood pressure or pain medication. Or that he gained a bunch of weight because of a new medication he was put on (which was the cause of his weight gain) for nerve pain.

I lost the weight and he is no longer on the medications he was on. He is loosing the weight too but he is still not in the mood. He bought me a toy to keep me happy but I still want sex. He just turned 40 and I was thinking it is low hormone levels but the doctor says no.

What do I do? If anyone has any suggestions please tell me. Toys can only do so much and I feel like I'm loosing what little mind I have left.

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