do all middle aged men truly find really young girls 18 more attractive than older women?
Losing your man
04/16/2012
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Everyone is attracted to their own thing. No, not all middle aged men like girls 18. There are men that like all ages of women. And women that like all ages of men. Of course also, men that like all ages of men and women who like all ages of women as well.
Originally posted by
Forever17
do all middle aged men truly find really young girls 18 more attractive than older women?
I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women. (I think that is what you are trying to say. The message is not really clear.)
04/16/2012
Yes, yes they do.
04/16/2012
If they're anything like the men who come onto the cam site I work for, yes, a lot of them like them young. At least, the ones I talk to. I guess there's something about having a Mistress who is much younger than you that excites them so my situation is quite a bit different, I am sure. But no, I wouldn't say that ALL middle-aged men like younger girls. You can't ever in ANY situation say that ALL of one group is the same. That's stereotyping. But statistically, probably, they like younger girls. Mid-life crises and what have you.
04/16/2012
I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women but not all men think this way actually there are some who still would prefer a women of a closer age because they are not looking for money, like a lot of the younger women that are into middle aged men are. so sweety his interests were his interests and you cant change that. look toward the future and the chance of finding a man who wants you not your daughters friend you know?
04/16/2012
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I know you didn't mean it but your post could be construed as offensive. Not all younger women are looking for money when they're attracted to an older man. Heck, being an older man doesn't even mean you HAVE money. You can be young and have money. Age doesn't always factor into that.
Originally posted by
phoenixfiress
I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women but not all men think this way actually there are some who still would prefer a women of a closer age because they are not looking for money, like a lot of the younger women that are into middle aged
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I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women but not all men think this way actually there are some who still would prefer a women of a closer age because they are not looking for money, like a lot of the younger women that are into middle aged men are. so sweety his interests were his interests and you cant change that. look toward the future and the chance of finding a man who wants you not your daughters friend you know?
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04/16/2012
i think they do
04/16/2012
Not me, I might find them attractive and all. But I know that a cover does not a good book make.
04/16/2012
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I don't think so. I mean, they might find someone attractive but not all men are going to leave their woman for a very younger one.
Originally posted by
spineyogurt
Yes, yes they do.
04/17/2012
Sure, plenty of guys like the IDEA of a very young woman, but most of the men I know - mature men, that is - prefer being with older women because it's often much less of a hassle for them. I mean, for a random hook-up or fantasy, sure, but as far as being in a relationship or even as a fuckbuddy I don't think they'd actually like it.
04/17/2012
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No!
Originally posted by
Forever17
do all middle aged men truly find really young girls 18 more attractive than older women?
Dear God, after reading all the responses, I'm getting nervous! I was under the impression that a lot of men, as they age just simply stayed attracted to those somewhat close in age to them! I know there are many who like em' young and barely damn legal, but I didn't know so much I GUESS. After reading most responses here, heck! Looks like almost every man will be attracted to younger, no matter how long the men age. To hell with that. I know some *maybe two at this point?!* men will just stay attracted to the one he's with whether she's older, the same age or younger. Dang. Am I wrong? Are men going to grow attracted to younger women even as they age, like as a couple. Say a youngish couple, they love each other, are close in age. Right? They grow older. Does HE begin liking the younger?! WTF! Now I'm freakin. Lol.
04/17/2012
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All I can say is that I'm 52 - been married for almost 33 years now - and my husband finds my 200+ pound body attractive still (and he tells me often) - but he especially finds ME attractive - my personality - etc.
Originally posted by
K101
No!
Dear God, after reading all the responses, I'm getting nervous! I was under the impression that a lot of men, as they age just simply stayed attracted to those somewhat close in age to them! I know there are many who like em' young ... more
Dear God, after reading all the responses, I'm getting nervous! I was under the impression that a lot of men, as they age just simply stayed attracted to those somewhat close in age to them! I know there are many who like em' young ... more
No!
Dear God, after reading all the responses, I'm getting nervous! I was under the impression that a lot of men, as they age just simply stayed attracted to those somewhat close in age to them! I know there are many who like em' young and barely damn legal, but I didn't know so much I GUESS. After reading most responses here, heck! Looks like almost every man will be attracted to younger, no matter how long the men age. To hell with that. I know some *maybe two at this point?!* men will just stay attracted to the one he's with whether she's older, the same age or younger. Dang. Am I wrong? Are men going to grow attracted to younger women even as they age, like as a couple. Say a youngish couple, they love each other, are close in age. Right? They grow older. Does HE begin liking the younger?! WTF! Now I'm freakin. Lol. less
Dear God, after reading all the responses, I'm getting nervous! I was under the impression that a lot of men, as they age just simply stayed attracted to those somewhat close in age to them! I know there are many who like em' young and barely damn legal, but I didn't know so much I GUESS. After reading most responses here, heck! Looks like almost every man will be attracted to younger, no matter how long the men age. To hell with that. I know some *maybe two at this point?!* men will just stay attracted to the one he's with whether she's older, the same age or younger. Dang. Am I wrong? Are men going to grow attracted to younger women even as they age, like as a couple. Say a youngish couple, they love each other, are close in age. Right? They grow older. Does HE begin liking the younger?! WTF! Now I'm freakin. Lol. less
We've grown old together and we find each other more attractive than others we see. I think it's because we know the "real" us.
As far as camgirls, etc. my husband says, "Why would I want something like that when I can have the real thing at home?"
Not saying that there isn't a place for Camgirls...just that my husband's mindset is "I can't have a 'real' relationship with them..so why would I want to visit them..."
04/17/2012
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Your husband is part of a "dying-breed" generation, most men from his generation would say they same thing.
Originally posted by
Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
All I can say is that I'm 52 - been married for almost 33 years now - and my husband finds my 200+ pound body attractive still (and he tells me often) - but he especially finds ME attractive - my personality - etc.
We've grown old ... more
We've grown old ... more
All I can say is that I'm 52 - been married for almost 33 years now - and my husband finds my 200+ pound body attractive still (and he tells me often) - but he especially finds ME attractive - my personality - etc.
We've grown old together and we find each other more attractive than others we see. I think it's because we know the "real" us.
As far as camgirls, etc. my husband says, "Why would I want something like that when I can have the real thing at home?"
Not saying that there isn't a place for Camgirls...just that my husband's mindset is "I can't have a 'real' relationship with them..so why would I want to visit them..." less
We've grown old together and we find each other more attractive than others we see. I think it's because we know the "real" us.
As far as camgirls, etc. my husband says, "Why would I want something like that when I can have the real thing at home?"
Not saying that there isn't a place for Camgirls...just that my husband's mindset is "I can't have a 'real' relationship with them..so why would I want to visit them..." less
04/17/2012
Since the dawn of time, biologically speaking, men have been attracted to young, fertile women. It doesn't matter what social commitments they've made, there is still a primal instinct that gets ignited.
What I'm about to say isn't a blanket statement by any means, but I guarantee if you asked every man who ever cheated on his wife with a younger woman he would say one of three things:
a) My wife let herself go after the kids were born and she just didn't try anymore ("she isn't the woman I married")
b) My wife doesn't give me the attention she used to when we first got together, she doesn't seem to be attracted to me anymore and I still have "needs" ("I have a raging boner and nowhere to put it")
c) I wasted my life and I wanted to regain some of my youth back ("impossibly immature Peter Pan syndrome")
Granted it's a two way street, but it often doesn't play out that way. In her mind she's the doting, loving overworked wife who isn't appreciated and in his mind he's just the guy paying the bills. And that spells disaster.
I think the situation can be prevented if both people are constantly willing to communicate about what's great, what's not so great, and what's really bad in the relationship. No relationship is perfect and every relationship can land in quicksand, it's how you handle it in the end that matters.
What I'm about to say isn't a blanket statement by any means, but I guarantee if you asked every man who ever cheated on his wife with a younger woman he would say one of three things:
a) My wife let herself go after the kids were born and she just didn't try anymore ("she isn't the woman I married")
b) My wife doesn't give me the attention she used to when we first got together, she doesn't seem to be attracted to me anymore and I still have "needs" ("I have a raging boner and nowhere to put it")
c) I wasted my life and I wanted to regain some of my youth back ("impossibly immature Peter Pan syndrome")
Granted it's a two way street, but it often doesn't play out that way. In her mind she's the doting, loving overworked wife who isn't appreciated and in his mind he's just the guy paying the bills. And that spells disaster.
I think the situation can be prevented if both people are constantly willing to communicate about what's great, what's not so great, and what's really bad in the relationship. No relationship is perfect and every relationship can land in quicksand, it's how you handle it in the end that matters.
04/17/2012
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Great response.
Originally posted by
Beck
Everyone is attracted to their own thing. No, not all middle aged men like girls 18. There are men that like all ages of women. And women that like all ages of men. Of course also, men that like all ages of men and women who like all ages of women as
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Everyone is attracted to their own thing. No, not all middle aged men like girls 18. There are men that like all ages of women. And women that like all ages of men. Of course also, men that like all ages of men and women who like all ages of women as well.
I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women. (I think that is what you are trying to say. The message is not really clear.) less
I am sorry if you lost your man to a younger women. (I think that is what you are trying to say. The message is not really clear.) less
I agree that everyone has their own thing that they're attracted to, and that no, not every middle aged man finds really young girls attractive.
04/17/2012
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Thank you! I am happily married to a man who is much older than me. And I assure you it wasn't about money. He didn't even have a job when we first got together.
Originally posted by
Nazaress
I know you didn't mean it but your post could be construed as offensive. Not all younger women are looking for money when they're attracted to an older man. Heck, being an older man doesn't even mean you HAVE money. You can be young and
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I know you didn't mean it but your post could be construed as offensive. Not all younger women are looking for money when they're attracted to an older man. Heck, being an older man doesn't even mean you HAVE money. You can be young and have money. Age doesn't always factor into that.
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04/17/2012
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Ditto!
Originally posted by
Beck
Thank you! I am happily married to a man who is much older than me. And I assure you it wasn't about money. He didn't even have a job when we first got together.
04/17/2012
I prefer older, and money has never had anything to do with it - it's usually maturity and life experience I'm after.
Besides, I'm nothing to look at; it's damn well going to be personality and such they're attracted to ... always has been, in point of fact. The quality of men I prefer (and now attract) aren't impulsive/shallow enough to be swayed by nubile young flesh. If they are, they certainly wouldn't be attracted to me in the first place - I'm an opinionated acid-tongued bitch with a body designed by Rubens and Rossetti.
There's no room for flakes when worshiping goddesses, you know.
Besides, I'm nothing to look at; it's damn well going to be personality and such they're attracted to ... always has been, in point of fact. The quality of men I prefer (and now attract) aren't impulsive/shallow enough to be swayed by nubile young flesh. If they are, they certainly wouldn't be attracted to me in the first place - I'm an opinionated acid-tongued bitch with a body designed by Rubens and Rossetti.
There's no room for flakes when worshiping goddesses, you know.
04/17/2012
I picked up an older guy as a younger woman, and it had little to do with my looks. As Brandon so adorably puts it, whilst biting at my head, he married me for my brains.
It takes all types. Sure, some guys look around for a young hottie for the stereotypical reasons, but some guys are also just looking for a soul mate, no matter what body she's in.
It takes all types. Sure, some guys look around for a young hottie for the stereotypical reasons, but some guys are also just looking for a soul mate, no matter what body she's in.
04/17/2012
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