Sex Drive And Age

Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
My fiance and I are six years apart. I'm 20, and he's 26. Based on every study I've ever read, he's already had his sexual peak, and mine won't occur (as a woman) until my mid thirties. That will put him in his forties! I already love sex...is he gonna be able to keep up with unquenchable desires in my sexual peak? Looking for your guys' experience!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Heck yeah! He may have already hit his peak, but he'll be happy keeping you happy in yours!
10  (59%)
You know, time for sex fades in your forties...he'll wanna keep you happy, but he may not be able to.
6  (35%)
Nope. Just nope. Good luck.
1  (6%)
Total votes: 17
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Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I know men who are almost in their forties (39) who act like they're in their teens in terms of sexual prowess. So honestly, yes I think it's more than likely even though he'll be in his forties, he'll be able to keep up with you.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Honestly, I have done cam shows before and there are guys in their eighties who are total horndog perverts. Trust me. There should be no problems. Guys stay horny almost their entire life so it would seem...
09/29/2012
Contributor: Abovetheclouds Abovetheclouds
I'm a male and I first started my own self discovery of my sexuality at 12 years. I'm 33 now, and as I get older the fires of passion/sensuality/ero tica only burns hotter for me as I age in this life. I used to think that I wished my desire would tone done some it was so unquenchable/distracti ng---but as I got older I learned how to channel it better .
Everyone is different and a person's mental/physical/spirit -like health most likely plays some role in their desires to be intimate. There are many factors involved but I feel as long as you have a healthy relationship with your mate and you each have a desire to explore/experience and indulge in each others feelings on a deeper level there will always be those intimate desires to share with each other.

And one more thing. "Studies" should be treated as if you've just read a funny 3 comic panel in the back of the newspaper! A study exists in a world of statistics, charts and logs of paperwork. Then there is what is actually happening in the real world.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
My husband is in his late forties and he always complain that I am not giving him enough sex - you're worrying way too much!
09/29/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm 11 years older than my wife and we are way ahead of you age wise. I was fully more sexually drive than her since day 1. At about 50 or so I did experience some diminished in capabilities - but thankfully not in desire.

You ave so far to go before having any of these issues - I wouldn't worry about it - just enjoy what you have!
09/29/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My fiance and I are six years apart. I'm 20, and he's 26. Based on every study I've ever read, he's already had his sexual peak, and mine won't occur (as a woman) until my mid thirties. That will put him in his forties! I already ... more
If he takes an interest, it won't be a big deal.
09/29/2012
Contributor: naturegirl naturegirl
Hubby & I are nearly 7 apart (55 & nearly 62), trust me, he is perfectly capable of doing what he did 30 years ago! He takes a little longer sometimes but that can be an advantage!
09/30/2012
Contributor: earthmama earthmama
It does depend on the guy, but there are even a lot of guys in their late 20's and 30's that are already past their "peak"... some guys turn it into an advantage, others not so much.
03/11/2013
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
Age in its self is not a roadblock. The passion and desire are what will keep the sex alive. I am 26 years older than my fiance' (I'm 49) and I feel more sexually alive than I did the last 17 of 24 years with my ex. Keep things fresh and fun for a sustainable sex life.
03/12/2013