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Single GF dating her son college friends. Is this a good idea?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
We have a friend. Single mom for years. About 40 and yes, HOT. Just had a run "dating" guys who were losers. She got disgusted and stopped dating. Her daughter is now a college freshman and her son is finishing his third year in college.

A recent weekend, on his way to a "week long big outdoor rock/music festival" in Tennessee, he stopped for the night (goes to college in Florida) with his three buddies from college to spend the night at home (she lives half way between his school and the concert location), and before you know it, she goes out to dinner with her son and his three friends.

I'm not sure I have ALL the details, but it looks like she may have had one of the guys spend the night in her room. After the concert, that same guy decided to "stay over" with this guys mom for the weekend following, and "he would take the bus back to school late Sunday".

Bottom line, this woman is dating/laying this college Junior/Senior. YES, he is actually 21, so he IS an "adult", but 1. Is this okay or, as some of our friends think, "creepy". Her son is like "oh, cool...but you better treat her right, dude, the chick is my MOM".

What thinks this open, liberal minded group of this "situation".

My husband and I, who have a college age daughter, are not really sure about how we would feel if it were OUR son!!!???
07/08/2011
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Contributor: Sir Sir
She's not dating her son, she's dating the son's friend. If they're attracted to each other, so what? Maybe they'll be good for one another, you never know.
07/08/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
I personally wouldn't be okay with it because it may put her son in an awkward position at school as well as put unnecessary strain on the relationship of the mother and son. However if they discussed it and he doesn't mind then I suppose it's fair game.
07/08/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
It could definitely be awkward, but as long as they are adults they should be able to do what makes them happy!
07/08/2011
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
I think it could be pretty awkward, but as long as her kids are fine with it I don't see a problem.
10/07/2011
Contributor: sweetcaroline sweetcaroline
it could be awkward, but only if the parties involved make it awkward.
If they like each other, why not.
Sounds to me like she's got "it," and if she's got it now she better flaunt it. Power to her, seriously.
11/06/2011
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
It's only awkward -because- it's one of her kid's friends. However, I guess if everyone is okay with it... Every college kid's dream, right?
11/13/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
It shouldn't be awkward age is just a number,and as long as both parties are happy, it doesn't matter.
11/13/2011
Contributor: MelSC MelSC
Age wise I don't see any problem with it, the only thing I can see getting awkward is that she is dating/sleeping with her sons friend. If things get ugly between them, or between her son and said friend it could create problems with the other relationship.

If the son is fine with it then it wont be a problem but I think all parties involved should just be careful.
11/13/2011
Contributor: badk1tty badk1tty
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Originally posted by Bignuf
We have a friend. Single mom for years. About 40 and yes, HOT. Just had a run "dating" guys who were losers. She got disgusted and stopped dating. Her daughter is now a college freshman and her son is finishing his third year in college. ... more
Ick. That's really all I can say. :/
11/17/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
As far as the age difference, whatever. They're both consenting adults, no problem there. I can see how her dating her son's FRIEND could be an issue, though. I feel like that's an icky and uncomfortable situation waiting to happen.
11/24/2011
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We have a friend. Single mom for years. About 40 and yes, HOT. Just had a run "dating" guys who were losers. She got disgusted and stopped dating. Her daughter is now a college freshman and her son is finishing his third year in college. ... more
I have to laugh a little bit on this one... the only issue I see is if it makes her son uncomfy. But then again we really shouldn't date around who other people approve of and who they don't - we should date based on who we as the involved party want.

The other part... they aren't dating... they are fucking. That's what this is and nothing more. He is into the milf scene and she's into getting what is probably some really fun, wild and crazy sex. Which good for her because I bet it makes her happy and is good for her self esteem.

I'm jaded a bit because I'm in the same boat sort of - though none of my kids are close to college age yet - as I'm fucking my early 20's 6foot-five gym trainer on a semi regular basis. You go gf!
11/24/2011