I love men in their mid 40's. I'm married to a man just shy of 30 and I don't know... the older, the more distinguished.

My Hollywood crushes are all men with visible signs of facial hair and over 40- george clooney, jeffrey dean morgan, sean connery, daniel craig, brad pitt- even when they shave they still look like they need to shave.. it must be that animalistic urge in me, I remember some article I read that said when you're on the rag you're more prone to rugged types. My husband's threatened by those movie stars and likes to tease me with the "daddy" shit- trust me, I'm not into Brad Pitt because I'm looking for a father figure... I mean, have you seen that ass? And that face? Oooh.

But my fantasy guy is one that is financially secure, has a high profile career he worked many long years for, has a big beautiful home with classic touches and hardwood flooring, and maybe his own boat... that wouldn't be too shabby. He smells like musk and ceder, is an oenophilist, perhaps can play piano (think richard gere in pretty woman... but actually smooth and sexy). I fantasize about the grand hollywood kisses- where you just fall into his arms and he consumes your body, his lips linger on your body for hours in a big bed with a white canopy that seems ethereal, sweat is everywhere and your vision gets a little cloudy. He has an air of sophistication, enjoys the Opera, and dedicates himself to a very debonair wardrobe.

So I sound materialistic but I married your typical Midwestern guy, my fantasy gets to be anything I want. And my fantasies do change as there are times I dream of the big burly Irish boys that would kick the shit outta my rich, fairy princes... lol. One thing that is consistent though, 40 and up. Oh, and I do love men with accents.

As for women, I can't stand those my own age that I socialize with, they seem to be so full of themselves and too concerned with the present. I suppose a woman for me would be at least 10 years old, settled, and entering a phase of rediscovery. I want someone secure, not wishy washy- mature, confident, and someone that has owned a power suit at least once in her lifetime. less

I love men in their mid 40's. I'm married to a man just shy of 30 and I don't know... the older, the more distinguished.

My Hollywood crushes are all men with visible signs of facial hair and over 40- george clooney, jeffrey dean morgan, sean connery, daniel craig, brad pitt- even when they shave they still look like they need to shave.. it must be that animalistic urge in me, I remember some article I read that said when you're on the rag you're more prone to rugged types. My husband's threatened by those movie stars and likes to tease me with the "daddy" shit- trust me, I'm not into Brad Pitt because I'm looking for a father figure... I mean, have you seen that ass? And that face? Oooh.

But my fantasy guy is one that is financially secure, has a high profile career he worked many long years for, has a big beautiful home with classic touches and hardwood flooring, and maybe his own boat... that wouldn't be too shabby. He smells like musk and ceder, is an oenophilist, perhaps can play piano (think richard gere in pretty woman... but actually smooth and sexy). I fantasize about the grand hollywood kisses- where you just fall into his arms and he consumes your body, his lips linger on your body for hours in a big bed with a white canopy that seems ethereal, sweat is everywhere and your vision gets a little cloudy. He has an air of sophistication, enjoys the Opera, and dedicates himself to a very debonair wardrobe.

So I sound materialistic but I married your typical Midwestern guy, my fantasy gets to be anything I want. And my fantasies do change as there are times I dream of the big burly Irish boys that would kick the shit outta my rich, fairy princes... lol. One thing that is consistent though, 40 and up. Oh, and I do love men with accents.

As for women, I can't stand those my own age that I socialize with, they seem to be so full of themselves and too concerned with the present. I suppose a woman for me would be at least 10 years old, settled, and entering a phase of rediscovery. I want someone secure, not wishy washy- mature, confident, and someone that has owned a power suit at least once in her lifetime. less

Generally speaking, my experiences with women my age (early 20s) have been wonderful. They were mature adults who knew what they wanted and were willing to learn new things throughout the relationship. But with a few rare exceptions, my experiences with men my age have been dismal. It's like they're all so insecure that if you so much as imply that you don't like something they're doing in bed, they flip out and call you frigid.

So I prefer men who are a good bit older than me. Usually I date men in their late 20s, since that's the average grad student age and I go to college, but...I think men are the most attractive when they hit 30. I constantly lust after men who are a full decade earlier than I am; they are the objects of my fantasies lately. To be quite honest, I think that's were a lot of my male-centered fantasies come from, since many of the "characters" in my fantasies would be around 30: teachers, plumbers, office managers (okay, now this is sounding like a bad porn...don't mind me, I'm sexually frustrated).

I never thought I'd have an age preference, but there you go! Women my age, men a decade older.

How's about everybody else? less