Your fantasy partners: older, younger, same age, or whatever?

My fantasy man would be 10-15 years older than I am (making him late 30's, early 40's), have a British or Irish accent, tall, maybe 6'3", well-built but not in a body-builder way, has enough money to be comfortable and enjoy the finer things but not necessarily wealthy, pale blue eyes or deep chocolate ones, self-assured, earthy, has a great sense of humor and loves to laugh, has a playful side, unpretentious, and has a deep desire to see me happy, contented and satisfied (which I would gladly reciprocate). less

Generally speaking, my experiences with women my age (early 20s) have been wonderful. They were mature adults who knew what they wanted and were willing to learn new things throughout the relationship. But with a few rare exceptions, my experiences with men my age have been dismal. It's like they're all so insecure that if you so much as imply that you don't like something they're doing in bed, they flip out and call you frigid.

So I prefer men who are a good bit older than me. Usually I date men in their late 20s, since that's the average grad student age and I go to college, but...I think men are the most attractive when they hit 30. I constantly lust after men who are a full decade earlier than I am; they are the objects of my fantasies lately. To be quite honest, I think that's were a lot of my male-centered fantasies come from, since many of the "characters" in my fantasies would be around 30: teachers, plumbers, office managers (okay, now this is sounding like a bad porn...don't mind me, I'm sexually frustrated).

I never thought I'd have an age preference, but there you go! Women my age, men a decade older.

How's about everybody else? less

Generally speaking, my experiences with women my age (early 20s) have been wonderful. They were mature adults who knew what they wanted and were willing to learn new things throughout the relationship. But with a few rare exceptions, my experiences with men my age have been dismal. It's like they're all so insecure that if you so much as imply that you don't like something they're doing in bed, they flip out and call you frigid.

So I prefer men who are a good bit older than me. Usually I date men in their late 20s, since that's the average grad student age and I go to college, but...I think men are the most attractive when they hit 30. I constantly lust after men who are a full decade earlier than I am; they are the objects of my fantasies lately. To be quite honest, I think that's were a lot of my male-centered fantasies come from, since many of the "characters" in my fantasies would be around 30: teachers, plumbers, office managers (okay, now this is sounding like a bad porn...don't mind me, I'm sexually frustrated).

I never thought I'd have an age preference, but there you go! Women my age, men a decade older.

How's about everybody else? less

Generally speaking, my experiences with women my age (early 20s) have been wonderful. They were mature adults who knew what they wanted and were willing to learn new things throughout the relationship. But with a few rare exceptions, my experiences with men my age have been dismal. It's like they're all so insecure that if you so much as imply that you don't like something they're doing in bed, they flip out and call you frigid.

So I prefer men who are a good bit older than me. Usually I date men in their late 20s, since that's the average grad student age and I go to college, but...I think men are the most attractive when they hit 30. I constantly lust after men who are a full decade earlier than I am; they are the objects of my fantasies lately. To be quite honest, I think that's were a lot of my male-centered fantasies come from, since many of the "characters" in my fantasies would be around 30: teachers, plumbers, office managers (okay, now this is sounding like a bad porn...don't mind me, I'm sexually frustrated).

I never thought I'd have an age preference, but there you go! Women my age, men a decade older.

How's about everybody else? less