Are you circumsized or is your partner?

My partner is not and I am very pleased with that. The head of his cock is way more sensitive than the circumcised fellows I have been with. I don't even like the idea of circumcision for a lot of reasons.

Firstly, You are causing your child unnecessary pain.
Second, if they mess up with that they really mess up, and mistakes are made more often than you believe.
Third, the child has no say in the matter, once it's gone and the damage of desensitization is done, it can't be undone.
Fourth, it isn't that difficult to clean.
Fifth, most people circumcise without being educated, or because they believe it is more work, or some other silly thing like they think it's ugly.


If you bathe your child properly and teach them to bathe themselves properly they will have no more problems than a circumcised man. less

My husband is and is suffering from a great deal of chaffing and tight skin and other troubles, known to effect circumcised men. These issues often arise after many years, My Man is in his 50s and his sensitivity has suffered as has his penile skin health. He has told me a few men he knows his age who are intact are not suffering from the same issues that he is. These men were mostly born in Europe, one had "hipster" parents in the late 50s and had a home birth, no circing and were decades ahead of their peers.

If we had had any boys, they would not have been subjected to this. I did give him an article about foreskin renewal, but he wasn't really interested, and it's his penis.

The sad thing was, when I was pregnant with our first baby, I was talking about not circing if it was a boy. He at first was all "No, my son is gonna look like me" and all the other silliness that you hear.

I suggested that I have my C cup breasts subjected to a reduction surgery, so I would "look just like my mother" who has AA cup breasts! That made him think how silly his statement had been.

Then he said, "Well, let's wait until the baby is born. If it's a boy, he might not even have one. I don't even know if I did." OK, I was dumbstruck by that one. I said, "What? A penis?" He said, "No, that skin thing."

"You mean the foreskin?" He said, "Yeah. I am not even sure if I had one. From the locker room and camping it looks like some guys have 'em and some guys don't."

He was so woefully ignorant of the procedure that he thought "only some guys" were born with foreskins! I assured him he had been born with a foreskin (but when he was born most boy babies were cut, and no questions asked)

We ended up having all girls. But, most of my friends with boys have left them as nature intended, and we would have, too.

I just think it's sad that a procedure that was so thoughtlessly made over 50 years ago has an impact on our sex life and his comfort today. I wish he had been left intact as a baby. less