My boyfriend and I had this problem toward the beginning of our relationship. He's diabetic and his blood sugar was too high AND one of his diabetes medications was lowering his testosterone levels, making it very difficult for him to maintain an erection without constant stimulation, if at all. He had tried the prescription drugs before he was with me and had very very bad reactions and no positive results from any of them, so I don't blame your man for being wary. They might look like little prescription miracles, but they're not for everybody.

Since I wasn't into the whole injection thing, we used a cock ring until we had his diabetes issues resolved. The thin ones never worked. The ones that went around his balls as well as his penis never worked. What worked best were ones (that I unfortunately have not found on here) that were a firm TPR material and were about 3/4" wide and 1/2" thick. They worked very well actually and allowed us to have vaginal sex and the closest thing I've found on here, looks-wise, are the sexagon enhancers. I actually just ordered one recently because he still has off days, and can let you know how it works in comparison once I get it.

I'm also most comfortable with these - as opposed to a metal or a stone material because if it were to ever get stuck or become a problem it can be cut off of him. And remember not to keep it on him for more than 20 minutes - it's marked that way on most packages. Also, if it ever causes pain, take it off right away. They worked best for us if I got him fully hard, usually with oral sex, and then put it on - it would hold the blood in his penis and allow him to stay just as hard while penetrating me as he would if I were just using my hand or my mouth - which like with your man, were always less of an issue and easier than actual sex.

If you have any other questions, feel free to message me

I wouldn't do that. You don't know what you're getting. Drugs that are sold online could be coming from Mexico or South America where drug contamination is common or they could just be making placebos that look like Viagra to make a buck. Don't trust this method. (That and they'll probably spam you email for the rest of your life.)

I would think about maybe trying a pump, rather than a cock ring, see if that works. Just out of curiosity, how is your husband's physical fitness?

I would be very careful with many of these sites. Some of them are scams, and some are watched by the DEA and the FDA (those who promise controlled substances, like Darvocet, or Percocet, etc) Also, I know a few people who have gotten their pills and it was NOT Viagra or anything like it. One older gentleman I know sent his pill to a lab, and it was analyzed and it was nothing but re-formed aspirin, died blue in the shape of a Viagra.

Good cautions - but honestly if you find a reputable supplier - mine come from a very well known generic-pharma company in India and I find the quality quite good. Each shipment comes with the potency test results. I've been using them for 2+ years & I'm very satisfied.

My fiancee has had ED as long as I have known him. his doc prescribed levitra, at 17$ per pill. as that is way too expensive, we cant exactly get them as needed. but we popped into our local brick and mortar store recently, and I asked the cashier about all the "stay hard" pills they carry. She said stiff nights was her top seller, and at only 9$ per pill, we decided to give it a go. and it worked, like a dream. we were both totally skeptical, but it worked as advertised. At half the price of his prescription, I think it was totally worth it.

FIrst, if you are paying more than $30 a pill for Viagra at any pharmacy in the USA, you are way overpaying. Second, ED pills (Viagra, Levitra and Cialis) do not cause dependency.

The good news is that Viagra is scheduled to become a generic here in the states in another year or 2, unless Pfizer, the company who has the patent on Viagra, has their way. They are trying to block the patent expiration date.