Guys, have you experienced any loss of sensitivity as you get older? What have you done to try to regain it.

I have been reading some information on this topic, some seem to recommend a product M1M oil.
Looking at the ingredients it looks like it could help, but it is pretty pricey. As an experiment I got some pure unrefined Shea butter and have been using it to rejuvenate the skin on my member. Supposedly Shea butter can repair skin cells and increase capillary density in skin tissue. So far it does seem to be working. The main reason I have been trying this is to regain enough feeling that I can cum with oral, and to hasten the time for orgasm with intercourse, which seem to take too long, and many times I don't get off at all. Anyway, I just want your opinions, thanks.
Ladies, you are welcome to comment too, if your S.O. Has had similar issues. less

Be very wary of topical solutions and bareback (no condom) sex.

Besides the issue of transference for products not meant for both geneders.

If the product contains testosterone or hormone enhancers you can seriously cause issues for a female partner. less

Both products failed completely - which really didn't surprise me. The problem is nerve damage/aging - nothing to do with making your skin 'rejuvenated'. There's an outside chance that improving vascular circulation could help - but I've tried pumping - which really amps up the penile blood supply - to no avail.

For now I just have to remind my wife to grip harder! less

Let me go sciencey...

L-carnitine can definitely help restore lost sensitivity to the penis, making for more pleasurable penis-based experiences.

L-carnitine helps the body produce energy. It is important for heart and brain function, muscle movement, and many other body processes.

Topical creams and ointments containing L-carnitine [I believe Man1 Man Oil contains Acetyl-L-carnitine] are a possibility but only via long term extensive use (it takes days, weeks for topical agents to absorb into the skin, some creams never make it past the 2nd or 3rd layer, most go into the blood stream and not the muscles or nervous system) would they help the affected area and such long term use I never advised.

However oral supplements are another option, L-carnitine (as Acetyl-L-carnitine or Propionyl-L-carnitine) is an amino acid body builders use but the same usage has been clinically shown to assist with male fertility.

Going and buying some Acetyl-L-carnitine and Propionyl-L-carnitine high strength supplements from a health store and trying them for 7 to 12 weeks, with an expected run of 6 months (note a minimum of 4-6 weeks is needed for the body to adapt to such a regime).

Worst case you lose a little wight, best case your body repairs from the inside out on the cellular level and sensitivity returns (partially or fully). less

Yeah - I'm not buying it. I've taken L-Carnatine to no avail - and the recommended regimen for Man1 Man Oil, Argine Max and others.

The FDA is suing the makes of Man1 for falsely creating '3rd party' studies - that were internally generated.

Enough money wasted chasing rainbows. less

I am suffering from lost of penile sensativity due to pain meds taken for a very bad back. I have tried Man1 oil no help. Lately I have read that penis pumps may help restore or increase penile sensativity. Atleast thats what hydro max claims. Anyone with comments or experience with lack of sensativity or penis pumps helping? less

Ok, so I tried the shea butter regimen for quite a long time, it does seem to make the skin softer and more flexible, but I can't say it has increased my sensitivity much if at all. What has been helping to some degree is meditation. Ommmmmm, ya, I know, it sounds crazy, but, taking a half hour every day to just relax and calm the racket going on in my brain caused by all the "stuff" that needs to be done seems to help. The way it works is if you start the day amped up, the adrenaline in your body doesn't drop off and you can't focus on any single thought without the junk intruding. Starting the day with meditation drops the adrenaline level and lowers the panic threshold so there is more room to move up. So a calmer brain, equals better focus, such as paying attention to what you are FEELING during sex, both emotionally and physically. It really does seem to help, if you do it regularly. Using this method I can mostly switch my focus back to the physical sensations I need and want to achieve orgasm. Some times I still get tuned in to my wife's pleasure and that focus shift keeps me from getting over the top. I just find it difficult sometimes to keep concentrating on MY pleasure when SHE is having such a good time with multiple orgasms. It's a tough job, but someone has to do it.
Good luck with YOUR journey towards sexual awakening, I hope you do try meditation, it truly helps in every way. less