I have never had a partner complain about me holding the shaft of his penis while giving him oral. In fact since I massage the base most of them love it! If you are uncomfortable you need to communicate with them, my partner never grabs my head. There have been times where he will rest his hand on the top of my head or play in my hair while I am giving him oral, NEVER has he throat fucked me or shoved me down where I didn't want to be. I would talk to him about it because it should be pleasurable for the both of you!!
Straight Males: Would you be offended...?
09/04/2012
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Well said...and I'm a guy. I do think that if he doesn't like what you are doing try something else. Variety is the spice of life but hold strong to your comfort zone.
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Rin (aka Nire)
If you're choking and gagging, that's just bad, no ifs, ands, or buts. Your own comfort is important too, and a guy should be able to respect that. I don't know your exact situation, but perhaps he doesn't realize the level of
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If you're choking and gagging, that's just bad, no ifs, ands, or buts. Your own comfort is important too, and a guy should be able to respect that. I don't know your exact situation, but perhaps he doesn't realize the level of discomfort you're feeling. Don't worry about offending him and bring it up. Perhaps if he doesn't want your hand, you could talk and work out a different solution that works for both of you.
If I was in this situation, and the guy didn't want to listen or work things out, I'd simply say, "Okay then, no more blowjobs. I like breathing too much." That's me, though. less
If I was in this situation, and the guy didn't want to listen or work things out, I'd simply say, "Okay then, no more blowjobs. I like breathing too much." That's me, though. less
09/04/2012
i would not be offended at all. if it is uncomfortable do what feels comfortable.
09/06/2012
Unless the gagging and coughing is what you want (which it doesn't sound like it is), then you absolutely have the right to switch back to what you're comfortable with. You shouldn't ever get forced to perform a sexual act that you do not enjoy or are not comfortable with.
01/17/2013
If someone throatfuck you without your consent then bite. And run.
01/24/2013
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