When this happened to my partner, I had to wait a while before it got back to regular sex. In the mean time, it was pretty much just oral and handies which I was ok with. You gotta know, she broke her arm while on vacation. I had to cut her some slack on that one.

I'm curious, is this on your dominant side, did you get it casted or did you elect for a metal rod with screws? If it is, handies using a male masturbator in addition to using the stranger (the non dominant side hand) will help you out greatly. less

I fell off a ladder while painting at my mom's house. It isn't my dominant arm (I broke the left one). It's currently in a splint, but we are waiting for a new clamshell brace, which will give me more mobility/range of motion, but that will probably be around a week (it's a small rural clinic with only one orthopedist who is only there two days a week).

I'm also on a transplant list, so, we are trying to avoid surgery and the ortho said it should heal without it.

My bf isn't terribly fond of my handies...he says he can do it better & faster, and I'm kinda okay with that because I know I'm not great at them and I don't exactly enjoy them. He's semi open to a masturbator, but he's also kinda weirded out by it.

I guess we'll figure it out in the meantime. less