Terrified of insects and arachnids, including moths and crickets. Yes, I know I'm ridiculous. i also have issues with needles. i'm trying to overcome that because i'd like to do needle play.

i don't like tall, imposing men. Not only could they hurt me if they wanted to, but i'm only 4'11" and for some reason they have a tendency to stand very close to me which means i have a difficult time looking at their face as i talk to them. i don't consider this a phobia though. i think phobias tend to be somewhat irrational fears. Like my fear of crickets. There's absolutely nothing about crickets that warrant my fear. Tall, big, imposing men, especially, say, when i'm walking to my car alone in a dark parking lot, is a perfectly valid and reasonable, possibly even wise, fear.

Ugh I'm terrified of spiders & ants

I'm actually a bit terrified of imposing men, too. Which is odd considering that imposing-seeming/looki ng men have done nothing to me.

I am afraid of spiders and falling from heights. I'm also afraid of blood. Oh and clowns.

Driving scares me a bit, too. But not to the phobia level.

However, my girlfriend notes all the times that I start to panic at the wheel and she's learned to ask if we need to pull over and switch. I never panicked as much before I wrecked her car, but now I find myself flinching a lot and will freak out if there's way too much traffic.

It's a thought, but it's not a huge phobia. This might be because I took several self defense courses and classes to learn to handle it.


My phobia is abandonment and betrayal. I have panic attacks that leave me shaking for hours, that leave me completely dependent on my partner. I'm afraid of what would happen if he wasn't there.