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Does your LOVER cleaning up the house/ doing chores TURN YOU ON?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
No kidding, when my guy is cleaning up the house, it is not a "turn on" per se, but it makes MY stress level drop, because I know CHORES are done. If they are DONE, I can relax and that makes for great, long lasting sex play.

How about YOU? Does having your lover "clean up" the place help YOU relax and thus get playful?
02/25/2012
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Contributor: js250 js250
Definitely. That means I can take some time to wind down, no stress, work or other and get in the mood! It is also seriously appreciated.
02/26/2012
Contributor: oldman oldman
Recently all the "advice" gurus suggest that if men want more sex from their partners, they should do more housework!! It frees up the partner and if they are less stressed and tired, they will more likely want to be sexual.

I think I'll go do the laundry....
02/26/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Yes it does! Also when I watch him fix things!
02/26/2012
Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
DH doing the dishes is considered foreplay in this house....and we both know it.
07/11/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
Damn right it does. Less so a turn-on than an appreciation for him doing his share that makes me feel good. When you feel good, it's easier to feel other things too.
07/11/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
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Originally posted by Bignuf
No kidding, when my guy is cleaning up the house, it is not a "turn on" per se, but it makes MY stress level drop, because I know CHORES are done. If they are DONE, I can relax and that makes for great, long lasting sex play.

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Not so much a turn on, but as you said, it lets me relax and feel less stressed.
07/11/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Actually yes. It expresses her womanhood, and her desire for a nice environment. Plus she usually does this nude
07/11/2012
Contributor: HotMama2three HotMama2three
Actually, chores are an "act of service" which is my primary love language, and when I feel loved, I'm in the mood. 5 Love Languages the book made this so easy for DH to understand, and has been our most valuable resource in our relationship.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
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Originally posted by js250
Definitely. That means I can take some time to wind down, no stress, work or other and get in the mood! It is also seriously appreciated.
definitly the same how i feel
07/13/2012
Contributor: Adriana Ravenlust Adriana Ravenlust
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Originally posted by Bignuf
No kidding, when my guy is cleaning up the house, it is not a "turn on" per se, but it makes MY stress level drop, because I know CHORES are done. If they are DONE, I can relax and that makes for great, long lasting sex play.

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Ditto. Also makes me feel respected and appreciated and such
07/14/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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Originally posted by Bignuf
No kidding, when my guy is cleaning up the house, it is not a "turn on" per se, but it makes MY stress level drop, because I know CHORES are done. If they are DONE, I can relax and that makes for great, long lasting sex play.

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I am a guy, but I do this at my GFs house and my GF says its "sexy", which I don't take literally, but I know she appreciates it anyway. I do it partially to help her out and so that she hopefully has more time for sex and quality time I also do most/all of the cooking. Seems to work and I think her GFs are envious when she tells them I run the vacuum and have dinner ready for her when she gets home.
07/26/2012