My wife contracted breast cancer in her late thirties, so she entered menoapause early. This slowed our sex life some at first, but that didn't last long. There has been some problems (medical) lately that has slowed it down lately, but we are working on those which is why I am on this site. We have obtained a dilator from Eden and hope that will help one of our issues. The sex can be as good or better, especially if you have children. Once they are out of the house, the play can get a lot better.