I always thought that men were all about having sex, but it seems like my man has a much lower sex drive than I do. Makes me feel kind of unattractive. Anyone else been through this?
Does your sex drive match your partner's?
02/18/2012
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Our sex drives are pretty close together, however I orgasm a lot more, but he edges and has stronger ones.
02/18/2012
His is higher. Doesn't really bother me. Probably bothers him a bit..
02/18/2012
My partner has a slightly higher sex drive than me but we've both had time periods where one or the other of us has had that happen. It just kind of varies. Usually it's not much of a problem though, unless one of us is really stressed and our sex drive is near zero.
02/18/2012
I think mine is higher, but he's pretty good about making sure my needs feel met.
02/18/2012
Mine is higher and it does tend to bother me. I can't handle no sex. Masturbation helps, but no much, however he tries. He works a lot (60+ hours a week lately), so it is understandable if he doesn't want to, but I want too all the time.
02/18/2012
In most relationships one partner ends up being the high desire partner. Sometimes it works out that the high desire partner doesn't feel as wanted by the other partner and feelings get hurt. Society seems to expect that the male is the high desire partner and the female will be the low desire partner. So when it is the female in a traditional relationship who ends up being the high desire partner, she may be left feeling that something is wrong with her, or him, or their relationship. In reality this is normal and is more common than society says.
02/18/2012
Ours are a pretty good match. We rarely turn the other down, and if we do it's generally because we aren't feeling well... which is fair.
02/18/2012
Fortunately, my partner and I's sex drive is about the same.
02/18/2012
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Mine is higher too and it hella bothers me. I'm like this wanton sex slave and I can't get it as much as I want.
Originally posted by
Beck
Mine is higher and it does tend to bother me. I can't handle no sex. Masturbation helps, but no much, however he tries. He works a lot (60+ hours a week lately), so it is understandable if he doesn't want to, but I want too all the time.
I know damn well it shouldn't make me feel this way, but sometimes it makes me feel undesirable regardless of what my good sense tells me- it's normal for people to not want sex as much as me.
02/18/2012
Mine is much higher.... and it drives me freaking insane
02/18/2012
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my sex drive is bigger than my Master's. I am often in the mood for sex.
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I always thought that men were all about having sex, but it seems like my man has a much lower sex drive than I do. Makes me feel kind of unattractive. Anyone else been through this?
02/18/2012
My sex drive is really high. So i gravitate towards gf's that desire alot of sex & dirty talk.
02/18/2012
My sex drive is much higher. It bothers me but not worth the argument
02/18/2012
I should have said yes, it's me who has the higher drive. Sometimes I feel really weird about it, but most of the time I'm fine about it. Being turned down does get old though!
02/18/2012
Mine is higher. I don't mind though, it just makes it better when he finally wants it
02/18/2012
His is way higher then mine
02/18/2012
Mine is higher, but he is close behind
02/18/2012
Hers is higher.
02/18/2012
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Same! So nice that it isn't an issue right?
Originally posted by
indiglo
Ours are a pretty good match. We rarely turn the other down, and if we do it's generally because we aren't feeling well... which is fair.
02/18/2012
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Totally sucks!
Originally posted by
JessCee
Mine is much higher.... and it drives me freaking insane
02/18/2012
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Right on!
Originally posted by
dbm6907
Fortunately, my partner and I's sex drive is about the same.
02/18/2012
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We are about the same.
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I always thought that men were all about having sex, but it seems like my man has a much lower sex drive than I do. Makes me feel kind of unattractive. Anyone else been through this?
02/18/2012
Female, mine if higher, and it has bothered me a number of times which bothers him.
02/19/2012
Mine is higher and I know exactly how u feel
02/19/2012
higher by a wide margin
02/20/2012
bsgs
ours are about the same...the only reason we say no to each other is if were exhausted...but even that isnt every time
02/20/2012
His is higher.
02/20/2012
I don't know if it's that mine is higher or the fact that he works 16 hours a day...but I find myself wanting sex more than he does. It does bother me...sometimes more than others.
02/21/2012
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my partners sex drive is higher
Originally posted by
PropertyOfPotter
I always thought that men were all about having sex, but it seems like my man has a much lower sex drive than I do. Makes me feel kind of unattractive. Anyone else been through this?
02/23/2012