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Saraid
I'm not trying to fight or disagree with you by any means, but you might be interested in reading this article about the rate of success with withdrawal link
I don't know enough about withdrawal success to say much about it.
But - If you are going to use withdrawal, you might want to consider using fertility awareness to compliment the withdrawal method. We used the fertility awareness method and it was 100% successful (for us ) at preventing pregnancy. We also used it as fertility charting to become pregnant which was successful. I will use it again after I'm done breastfeeding. But it's *not* for everyone and you have to truly know your body and apply the concepts correctly. I received excellent instructions and practiced the methods and became very comfortable with it and knew when I was ovulating and when I wasn't. It takes awareness and patience so it's definitely not for everyone. It's not 100% either. Many people practicing this method will used condoms if there are any doubts about whether or not they are fertile.
We use condoms now because it's not recommended to use this method while breastfeeding since it may not be accurate.
The body gives signals and there are many women that can accurately chart their fertility to prevent pregnancy. I know of many women that do this on an ongoing basis and successfully prevent pregnancy.
Ultimately, you have to chose the correct method for you. Everyone has the right to chose which birth control is comfortable for them.
I am concerned about withdrawal simply because of the pre-cum. If I understand this correctly, some men can release some sperm before they actually ejaculate.