I'm still not too used to anal sex, I've had it before a few times but it was mostly periodicity and very painful. Lately I've been getting into it more, not really full sex but just fingering from my partner. Yesterday he was fingering there and I was enjoying it so he went a bit rougher than he usually does and that night I found out that my butt was bleeding. (In case you are wondering yes we did use lube and most of the time it didn't hurt)
Well anyways what I really want to know is when this happens what are you supposed to do? Is there anything you can put on it to help it keep from getting infected? Do you just wash it well with soap and water? Or if this happened to you would you just leave it alone and just got to the doctor if you see anything different?
I don't think there was anything too internal, just think it might be the outside or slightly in. Also if you have any tips to avoid this then feel free to share that too.