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Anyone here that has lost interest in sex?

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Contributor: Tianna Silver Tianna Silver
I'm at a point right now where I couldn't really give a crap whether or not I ever get laid again. We've been trying to get pregnant for 17 years and I know that's never gonna happen for us so now sex is really a chore for me. I can't help thinking whenever we do it, that at the same time another couple is doing the same thing and they'll get pregnant whether they want a baby or not. At this point I have to get drunk out of mind to have sex without putting on the fake smile to keep my hubby happy.

Anyone else feel like this? How do you deal with it or get over it?
09/19/2012
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Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
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Originally posted by Tianna Silver
I'm at a point right now where I couldn't really give a crap whether or not I ever get laid again. We've been trying to get pregnant for 17 years and I know that's never gonna happen for us so now sex is really a chore for me. I ... more
It sounds like there is more going on here than just a lull in your sex drive. Frustration is a powerful thing that can be a major mood killer. It sounds like you may have linked getting pregnant too closely with having sex. You may need to work on breaking them apart in your mind and just focus on sex for sex sake.
09/19/2012
Contributor: sw33t1zm3 sw33t1zm3
Quote:
Originally posted by Tianna Silver
I'm at a point right now where I couldn't really give a crap whether or not I ever get laid again. We've been trying to get pregnant for 17 years and I know that's never gonna happen for us so now sex is really a chore for me. I ... more
you need to speak to someone about it beucase its depression.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
have you talked to your husband about how you are feeling? If it is difficult to express your feelings it might be a good idea to make a few appointments with a couples' counselor to talk through the issues in a safe environment.
09/20/2012