From family to friends, I find I am often giving sexual advice to those in my life. I was wondering if anyone else experiences this and do you find it annoying or rewarding?
Are you the "sex expert" of your social circle?
04/21/2012
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I am most definitely the sexpert of any social situation in life. I don't think I can remember the last time I was out sexed by anyone. My Mom often comes to me about advice for toys she might enjoy - and you'd think I'd be annoyed by it. But I'm really not. I find it to be incredibly rewarding.
Originally posted by
Peaches2000
From family to friends, I find I am often giving sexual advice to those in my life. I was wondering if anyone else experiences this and do you find it annoying or rewarding?
Not only am I normally the most knowledgeable about music and medicine, but sexuality too! I love it
Do you find it annoying or do you find it rewarding?
04/22/2012
That I am...of the kinky variety especially. My friends get a kick out of asking questions of what I'm into and why.
04/22/2012
i am not
04/22/2012
I feel like I am
04/22/2012
I definitely am and I find it amusing considering how little actual sex I have.
04/22/2012
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Yep! I can't say I don't like it though
Originally posted by
Peaches2000
From family to friends, I find I am often giving sexual advice to those in my life. I was wondering if anyone else experiences this and do you find it annoying or rewarding?
04/22/2012
I'm not the go to gal in my group of friends or family. I'm usually the one going to others for advice.
04/22/2012
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definitely..but not even just in my circle! I give alot of people advice as they seek it from me..even my boss-bosses..have been married for 32 years and asked me how to spice things up...with his money I purchased them there first sextoy!Im not sure why people come to me im assuming because they know it is one of my biggest interests and im open with it...even though I havent had alot of partners im pretty experienced! and i take it as a compliment when ppl ask me things!
Originally posted by
Peaches2000
From family to friends, I find I am often giving sexual advice to those in my life. I was wondering if anyone else experiences this and do you find it annoying or rewarding?
04/22/2012
Generally I feel like I am. I'm trained as a sex educator, so that's definitely a big part of it!
04/22/2012
Definitely!! With the amount of items we have and our variations we have a much more diverse sex life than anyone of our friends. I rarely offer advice unless I am asked, however, usually my friends just want to vent, not advice.
04/22/2012
Not only do they come to me for advice, but for free toys that *I* think would work for them. I run an adult review site, and I get TONS of toys to review, most of which, I'll use once then clean it and give it away. Share the love!
04/22/2012
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Overall, very rewarding. The only time I find it a pain is when I am dealing with an extremely prudish individual. I hate trying to address sex with people who still refers to the act as "well you know...bedroom activities" and the second you mention anything away from the traditional missionary position, they turn red and become uncomfortable. Believe it or not, I deal with these individuals often.
Originally posted by
ValerieRayne
I am most definitely the sexpert of any social situation in life. I don't think I can remember the last time I was out sexed by anyone. My Mom often comes to me about advice for toys she might enjoy - and you'd think I'd be annoyed by it.
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I am most definitely the sexpert of any social situation in life. I don't think I can remember the last time I was out sexed by anyone. My Mom often comes to me about advice for toys she might enjoy - and you'd think I'd be annoyed by it. But I'm really not. I find it to be incredibly rewarding.
Not only am I normally the most knowledgeable about music and medicine, but sexuality too! I love it
Do you find it annoying or do you find it rewarding? less
Not only am I normally the most knowledgeable about music and medicine, but sexuality too! I love it
Do you find it annoying or do you find it rewarding? less
04/23/2012
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Good advice js250! People never take well to advice they don't ask for. I think it is always better when they ask questions at a pace they are comfortable with.
Originally posted by
js250
Definitely!! With the amount of items we have and our variations we have a much more diverse sex life than anyone of our friends. I rarely offer advice unless I am asked, however, usually my friends just want to vent, not advice.
04/23/2012
Nope. My close friends and I rarely talk about sex. That's why I come here.
04/23/2012
I most certainly am, and I love it. I like being the knowledgable one.
04/23/2012
I think it's great that you're so open. Friends and family think it's a "sin" to talk about it. But I think they're crazy.
04/25/2012
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i tend to be the "sexpert" with my friends... ironically, i have been with my man for 5 years, and have been with 1 other person before him. Most of my friends have been with multiple persons, and come and ask me for the advice? I read alot on all topics, am a nurse, So i suppose advice giving comes naturally lol.
Originally posted by
Peaches2000
From family to friends, I find I am often giving sexual advice to those in my life. I was wondering if anyone else experiences this and do you find it annoying or rewarding?
04/26/2012
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Well said!
Originally posted by
Gracie
Nope. My close friends and I rarely talk about sex. That's why I come here.
For my wife - her friends are big talkers, or should I say complainers. It has made her appreciate me a lot more. I asked if she talks about she says - as little as possible.
04/26/2012
I sometimes can be! I've been told I'm a walking talking sexual dictionary, as I apparently know far too many things that most people don't, but that doesn't mean I don't learn something new and interesting once in a while! I do often get asked sexual questions about things, get asked for help on things, dating, and just.. sex in general. I even got asked such things when I was a virgin!
04/27/2012
yea I really am but I think I say too much sometimes and they think I'm crazy lol
04/28/2012
I most definitely am the most knowledgeable one in my circle. I have a love/hate relationship with it though because I love knowing, but I hate that people basically just figure because of what I do and why I know, that I'm a slut or something. :/
04/29/2012
Yep. Everyone asks me questions. I would rather they think I am sex-smart than a creep though!
04/29/2012
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